What would your dream partner be like?

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For me the perfect partner for me would be some one with a strong interest in science to the point where they are studying it. Some one who is a deep thinker and can understand some of the concepts I think of and give me some food for thought as well. Some one who was not butt ugly but she would not have to look any where near as good as my last two girl friends did.

Yea some one who accepts me for me. The deeper me not just the version you see every day but the real side of me.

for me i'm looking for someone with a mind that's very open like mine. someone who knows the value of wisdom. i'm looking for one of those rare women who is beautiful - not supermodel beautiful, but naturally beautiful. who'll be as beautiful 50 years from now, without needing to dye her hair. yes these women do exist. it's something in the face. a sort of honesty i guess.

It would take me a while to describe them.

Someone who makes an effort to meet up for a start! (but that's my own personal gripe)

Otherwise, someone who's quirky, his own person and proud of it. An honest, down-to-earth guy, who is considerate and loving (without being icky), who'll go the extra mile for you.

People don't come to you, you have to go to them. Surley if you know they are perfect you would have met them already?

Sorry, was just reflecting on my own current predicament, ie a guy who says he wants to meet up 'soon' but then is constantly 'v. busy' - if he cared, he'd find time somehow. There again, he doesn't fit the rest of my 'dream partner' attributes either, don't know why I bother.

For me chemistry with someone is dependant on so many different things, that I may not even notice until an amount of time later. But whoever my 'dream girl' is, she'll make it happen.

Ok, thanks for clearing up the confusion

For me the primary requirement is that she be smart. Definitely above average. Someone who does not stimulate me intellectually will quickly bore me. An interest in science or math would be good too, if only so she won't get bored when I ramble on about them. Glasses are a bonus here. I love glasses.

She would be affectionate in private, but not so much in public, because I get embarassed with public affection.

She would have to have a good sense of humor, preferably a somewhat twisted one. Being a little "weird" would be good too. I always like to use Phoebe from "Friends" as an example of this. Normal people are boring.

And of course, she'd have to be able to accept me for who I am, quirks and all.

Female . Biped.With 46 chromosones.Um ,over 25.

My dream partner would have some Aspie traits like being cool with left alone when I need to be left alone too. I like shy and nice guys.

However I'm a bit worried about this because if I had children (in the unlikely event I actually find someone I want to have children with) there's a greater chance that the children be aspies too (I don't know how much of this is genetic but I have a second cousin diagnosed with AS and another cousin who is likely to have it IMO.)

Though I'm not sure why I wouldn't want Aspie children when I wouldn't know what to do with an NT child...

She would be from 5'4 to 5'9.Tall,thin but slightly muscular,with either white,reddish-dark brown,or jet black hair,with blue or grey eyes,and pale(but not too pale) skin.

She has to be funny and like anime,sci-fi,fantasy,and drama suspense.

I'll write more later.

-SpaceCase

big boobs, nice big bum, and... err hang on this isn't the mature section

my idea partner (or partners ) would be similar to me in some ways but has to be different to me in other ways. for example i'd like my ideal partner to also be an aspie. my relationships with NTs have never ever got anywhere, becasue the moment there's the slightest difficulty it's all attributed to my autism, i'm always made to feel it's me who's the abnormal one, it's always me who's 'wrong'.... ugh so i like my partner to also be autistic, at least then we can have balanced discussions about how to avoid setting off each other's sensory issues and the need for time apart.

where it comes to interests i usually prefer a potential partner to have different interests and tastes in entertainment, because i like a change i get bored of my own interests! and i's like them to have a bit of a different personality to me, i can be a bit too boring sometimes and it's something i don't like about myself, i need someone a bit more 'interesting' to learn from... (my first ever girlfriend dumped me after 2 weeks for being too boring!! only an aspie could get dumped for that! )

I think John Cougar Meloncamp put it best:

I need a lover who won't drive me crazy
Someone to thrill me and then go away!



(just kidding)(sort of)

My preferences generally tend to change. At the moment I wouldnt mind if I got with someone younger as all my ex's are older than me although Im not actively looking at the moment. It happens or it dont.

However, these are the things I look for that dont change. I like someone who is intelligent with their own interest that doesnt necessarily have to coincide with mine. I like a positive attitude and a good sense of humour. Someone who wont hurt me. Someone who I can talk to and be open with and vice versa. If I could list everything I desire from a partner I'd be hear all day.