valentine’s Day, please help me! quick!

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13 Feb 2006, 11:55 am

At day release English class, I found an aspie girl that I really like and very compatible, with, very much so compared with 99 percent of woman. We had a date on Saturday, which I enjoyed bla bla bla. The problem is that Valentines Day is coming up and it seems to be a bit rushed a little. I mean, I don’t even know her address so I cannot even post her a Valentines card. Should I meet up with her at a coffee or Wetherspoons pub? If I do decide to give her a valentine’s card, I would not know what to put onto it.



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13 Feb 2006, 12:33 pm

You could go for a coffee with her and give her a card there. You could say in it how much fun you had on Saturday and you hope you can do it again soon (assuming this is the truth and you want to see her again).


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13 Feb 2006, 12:42 pm

Or, instead of a card, if you want to meet her for coffee, you could give her a small, simple bouquet or wild flowers tied in a ribbon. Nothing too fancy. Girls love flowers!


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13 Feb 2006, 2:06 pm

I agree with that last notion of flowers. As an AS girl, that would be well received if it were me.

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13 Feb 2006, 3:46 pm

After the first date last Saturday, I think it is too soon to meet up with her on valentines day, I would just scare her off. What do you think?



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13 Feb 2006, 4:08 pm

I like the meet her for coffee and give her a small bunch of wildflowers tied with a ribbon idea.


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13 Feb 2006, 5:05 pm

I like the flowers idea too, just not roses!! If you want to go the romantic route with this girl eventually then no harm in meeting on Valentines, just stay away from talking about the future of the relationship as that can be scary.



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13 Feb 2006, 5:34 pm

ehh, you can bring a yellow rose.
that signifies friendship, but how long have you known her for?
if i were you go with the yellow flower and tell her that you are glad that she is your friend.
is small but who knows this might lead to something elce.