Saw the soccer gal at work today

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The cute girl I talked about. Well I saw her come in today since shes back for xmas break. I guess she came in to tell them she can work. Anyways When I saw her I was real nervous. I mean when she returns to work Im going to be really nervous and not know how to ask her out.

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Just be casual. Be friendly but don't hang around her. You could tell her you are glad she's back, ask her how college is going. Show interest in what she has to say. If she seems to enjoy talking to you, ask her if she fancies going for a coffee after work or something like that, and see how you get on. If you try pretending to yourself that you don't fancy her (visualise her as a guy if this makes it easier not to be nervous) it should be less nerve wracking for you, and easier to strike up a friendship with her without scaring her off. Desperation is offputting - sad but true - so if you give the impression that there is more to you than seeking a girlfriend you stand a better chance.

Good luck, and don't worry, it gets easier with practice

Dunc

everyone has trouble asking people out. i know i do. even the guy who always gets the girl will sometimes have trouble. you're not alone. just find out what the both of you would be interested in, and maybe ask her to do something. if she likes ice skating, ask her if she would like to go with you tomorrow night. if she wants to see a certain movie, make plans to go see it. if she seems to have a general interest in you, even as a friend, i'm pretty sure she'll say yes!

good luck!

If you don't you'll never know...

good luck (and don't mention Kathleen England!)

dunc

You mean tell 'soccer girl' you think Kathleen England looks cute, I wouldn't if I were you. You won't get a date from 'soccer girl' if you do.

Well you might want to practice proper hygiene and all before going on a date and no talking about other women around a woman you hope to go on a date, and talking about wanting to sleep with a woman is a real turnoff for most women.

Um, it's not your decision when she should have sex with you on average... it's hers.

If she does want it, she'll tell you when she does, you don't get her to do it, that's called non-consentual if you try to push it on her.