Do you wish you had boyfriend?

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zeldapsychology
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13 Nov 2009, 8:26 am

(This could be for guys wanting a girlfriend but since I'm female you get the idea.) :-) I at times wish I had a boyfriend IMO the only good thing is not having to argue all the time and such but I'd like the cuddling and stuff. :-( I've always been jealous in someway to my older sister. :-(



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13 Nov 2009, 9:30 am

I wish I had a girlfriend. But got no skills whatsoever to get a girlfriend. Sometimes I get a little lucky. Once I was at a friend's party and a girl came talk to me but we just talked about boring subjects. I intend to try looking for girls how are more intellectual here at my city and university, I've got a better chance with them.



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13 Nov 2009, 9:32 am

It would be nice to have a boyfriend. Someone to care about and do little things for, someone to cook with and plan things. Someone to bounce ideas off of knowing they have your back.

~sigh~ yeah. It's been a while. . . :roll:


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13 Nov 2009, 12:13 pm

Only when super drunk and the boundaries of sexual preference become blurred.


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13 Nov 2009, 1:43 pm

I've never had a gf. I'd like to have one, but I'm just not ready yet, not right now. Everyone gets to the 'yes' in the end.


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13 Nov 2009, 4:43 pm

I've never had a gf, and by the looks of things, I probably will never. I'm just not confident enough to put myself out there to try and at least be noticed. Sometimes, I wish someone could be out there looking for someone like me, despite all my obvious flaws. I'm that type of person who won't try, unless I am 110% sure someone will like me. And because I guess I don't like myself enough, I just won't try. And as they say - Nothing ventured, nothing gained. :(



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13 Nov 2009, 7:46 pm

Sometimes.

It frustrates me that I can never find anyone im attracted to, and If I do they're always taken or don't want me. Most of the time I'm fine being single, but sometimes I just want someone to love me.



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13 Nov 2009, 8:00 pm

I really want a boyfriend, my standards are too high though and I'm too shy to ask anyone out when I do fancy them.


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13 Nov 2009, 8:00 pm

Yeah there are times I wish I had a boyfriend.

I guess I still have a lot of trust issues and other insecurities,it's nice just to be able to be myself without having to worry about the way I look or having the pressure of doing something I don't want to do.

I'm not a very a good communicator which makes this extra hard so I guess I'm split between these two issues but I'm not desperate that's for sure, not like I use to be anyway.


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13 Nov 2009, 8:34 pm

Yes and no. There are many many reasons for and against. Life becomes much more complex, and it's already difficult to maintain. But you get support at the same time.

I suppose it depends on whether it's a dream SO. Someone who supports, helps, accepts your quirks, keeps you from doing stupid sh*t, similar sexual preferences, and someone you can do all of the same back to.

In that case... yes. Yes I think I would like one.


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13 Nov 2009, 10:38 pm

No :D



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14 Nov 2009, 3:16 am

willa wrote:
Only when super drunk and the boundaries of sexual preference become blurred.


That's called "seeing double but feeling single" where I was raised. :wink:


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14 Nov 2009, 3:25 am

zeldapsychology wrote:
(This could be for guys wanting a girlfriend but since I'm female you get the idea.) :-) I at times wish I had a boyfriend IMO the only good thing is not having to argue all the time and such but I'd like the cuddling and stuff. :-( I've always been jealous in someway to my older sister. :-(


I've always wanted a girlfriend. Even more since I had a girlfriend once.



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14 Nov 2009, 3:38 am

hale_bopp wrote:
Sometimes.

It frustrates me that I can never find anyone im attracted to, and If I do they're always taken or don't want me. Most of the time I'm fine being single, but sometimes I just want someone to love me.


Same here - I'm very rarely attracted to anyone, and then when I am they don't want me (in all cases except one - my ex-bf).

I don't terribly mind being single, I guess I'm a very independent person, but sometimes I can get lonely and want to find a deep connection with someone - like an intense mental combining and sharing that you get when you're in love.


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14 Nov 2009, 8:13 am

Unless you are really gross and creepy then there is someone for you.

Girls: Go to gun clubs and motorcycle races.

Guys: Go to church groups and art galleries.

I don't care if you are fat or thin, spotty or balding, rich or poor.

For every unhappy young man there is an unhappy young woman who would love to love you.



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14 Nov 2009, 8:53 am

Wombat wrote:
Unless you are really gross and creepy then there is someone for you.

Girls: Go to gun clubs and motorcycle races.

Guys: Go to church groups and art galleries.

I don't care if you are fat or thin, spotty or balding, rich or poor.

For every unhappy young man there is an unhappy young woman who would love to love you.


I do like the sport of shooting be it guns or bown' arrows. Perhaps it is this and other masculine qualities that guys find unattractive... :(

I do like art galleries though.... :D


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