Who else likes perky, bouncy, crazy, high-pitched girls?

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Who else on here does? With some physical stuff coming into play here, I imagine a girl in her early-mid 20s, perky, bouncy, cheerful, etc. attitude, physically attractive, dresses in cute fashion (i.e. a black dress). Does anyone else have any "ideal girl" like this? I am also talking about girls who prance around going "Wooh!" and acting happy almost all the time (kind of a "dumb blonde" persona).

Oh, and intelligence, to me, is not all important in a girlfriend/wife.

I dated a girl like this, and it was a bit much. I don't like being bouncy and jumping around. When other people do it, it just makes me nervous.

I'm more interested in a quiet girl who has the same awkward intellectual nature I possess. Simply thinking about that creates this massive rush of endorphins, so I'd say it's what I'm into.

I DO!! !! !

Im like that in real life, and then I get all depressive and moody. Bipolar.

Those type of girls actually aggravate me but I'd take them as a F.B if I had a chance. Cold? Perhaps, but after a while I don't care anymore.

That describes the kind of girl that is not only polar opposite of me, but someone I will try to avoid completely. I like positive, but brainless hedonism and perpetual childishness are ungodly turn offs in friends, co-workers, acquaintances, family, and definitely mates. Fuh.

I find myself perpetually suspicious of people who are happy all the time. There is something very fake and plastic and oh so neuro-typical about this need to be perpetually happy, or at least to present that as a public face.

Maybe it's just me because I relate more to the Jungian ideal and think we should all embrace our shadow, and believe that living authentically means being open and expressing the full range of emotions.

All that to say such girls are not my type really. Life is all about light and dark and shades of grey in between.


john

I'm totally all about the perky cheerful cute chicks, but they must also be intelligent. I had an opportunity to date a perky cute girl, but she wasn't that intelligent. She had no interests, and I could not have any kind of an interesting conversation with her.

As a side note, it occurs to me that intelligent people generally aren't happy all the time... I am always cheerful and I find it quite perplexing that intelligent people choose to not be happy. I just don't see the logic in that.

I get depressed, because there's no prayer of actually having a substantive conversation. You say one pragmatic or on-point thing and if its followed by another - you've committed two fatal social faux pas. Girls like this, sadly, generally aren't very forgiving of depth.

I've known maybe a few to the contrary but even at that, they only seem like that type on first glance - as you get to know them better you realize that they're not what they appear to be and if anything that bubbly airhead bit is more their shot at stoicism. As for girls who really are what they appear to be - no, we don't get along, and 99% of the time I'm the one socially extending a hand just as part of the group and getting bit - like I said, they're not forgiving of depth.

Meh, I am indifferent.

I'm all for a woman that actually likes me back. If she can do that, where she is on the perky/quiet scale is irrelevant...

You know being loud and silly does NOT imply stupidity all the time.

I don't mind a perky, silly, high pitched voice women (that's a plus, since women with low pitched voices tend to bother me (I'm sorry...it's one of my aspie quirks - if I knew why I get bothered, I would have fixed that)); however, intelligence is important to me as well - and drum roll please....without these following qualities, I don't care if she is a hottie, she is a demon to me - but compassion, kindness and morals is THE most important quality I look for in a woman. Morals, like not cheating on me...or being manipulative to only get her way, or lying to save herself - I want honesty. Oops...I think I said too much. I'm sorry to ramble. I hope I haven't offended anyone.

i'm not opposed.
that type of girl sounds interesting .
Though personally i've never dated one.
& intelligence does matter to me. Not asking for superior intelligence, just someone who's not as dumb as a rock. I'd like to be able to have deep conversations on intelligent matters.

Although I'm aware that intelligent, incessantly cheerful, perky, bouncy women do exist... I certainly have never seen one. And intelligence is the #1 thing for me, followed very closely by compatible principles and outlooks on life. Which, seeing as those are all based almost completely on logic and reason, tend to exist with intelligence. Though certainly not always.

The above notwithstanding, I'm fairly certain an incessantly happy person would irritate me to no end. Happy people like to talk and interact, and that's rather abrasive to my need for solitude. It's not bad in small, controlled amounts, but constantly? No thanks.

Also, T-Bone, happiness isn't something you can choose all the time. My emotional state tends to remain in the emotionless range, unless I'm studying an interest at the time, at which point I can be called intense. Ignorance is Bliss, and it holds true, most of the time. Knowing what I do about the world and human depravity and being unable to stop thinking makes being happy somewhat of a problem. It when I'm able to not think about those things, IE: be ignorant of them through not thinking about them, that makes happiness a possibility.

You may be on to something.

Last time I took my kids to Disneyland, I found myself oddly attracted to Tinkerbell