SoulcakeDuck
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04 Dec 2009, 2:25 am
... to the tests on OkCupid.com.
Someone mentioned it in a thread here on WP and I didn't know what it was so i looked it up, joined, and then fooled around a bit with my profile, but instead of looking after girls I discovered this test section and I've been at it all day, It's fun but wow I wasted over 6 hours. 
Maybe I should see what kind of people are on there as well.
Funny thing is that these tests are saved and added to your profile so now I come across as a cold hearted, sex craved womanizer.
still those tests are like crack... 
04 Dec 2009, 5:53 am
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04 Dec 2009, 10:37 am
Ah jeah I just saw that function but I did answer the tests truthfully so I guess it's only hiding the truth. But since the tests follows typical NT stereotypes my emotional detachment makes me look like quite the douche.
Conclusion, ignoring my AS I'm an lewd NT douche.
04 Dec 2009, 10:43 am
Someone mentioned it in a thread here on WP and I didn't know what it was so i looked it up, joined, and then fooled around a bit with my profile, but instead of looking after girls I discovered this test section and I've been at it all day, It's fun but wow I wasted over 6 hours.
Maybe I should see what kind of people are on there as well.
Funny thing is that these tests are saved and added to your profile so now I come across as a cold hearted, sex craved womanizer.
still those tests are like crack...
That's one of the big reasons I am on there.
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04 Dec 2009, 11:42 am
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04 Dec 2009, 2:41 pm
No I'm not. I have a tendency to demand some ME time and become quite dismissive or non verbal and that might look like I come across as a very selfish and stubborn person, thinking only of myself.
The sex part is pretty much accurate, I do have a fairly/overly horny persona and been like that since I was a little kid so I'm not going to deny my extreme attraction to sexual acts, but I do treat girls/women with respect and kindness, I can be quite of a trickster and a tease but I see to that I never hurt their feeling or mislead them beyond misinterpretation.
I do have a very playful character and I can come across a bit rude if you don't fully understand me or know me personally, some say I'm a cute and a total sweetheart and those who know me less label me more of a NT type playboy that comes across as playing cute and hard to get.
But basically I'm quite cuddly, kind and understanding.
It's just that I answer mosts tests that involve romance and sexual intercourse as playful rather then affectionate, because that's how I feel about the whole subject of sex.
NT tests are not for Aspies I guess...
04 Dec 2009, 2:53 pm
I adore taking personality tests and the like. I can easily spend hours doing so. I sympathize. 
I could easily spend hours on that site.
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04 Dec 2009, 3:55 pm
I could easily spend hours on that site.I'm trying to resist going on there because i believe I'll repeat the same streak but i feel as tho Cupids dark shadowy claws are grasping my mind and telling me to enjoy some more fun personality quizzes.
Guess I'll be on there later messing around.
My nickname is SoulCakeCat by the way if anyone cares about that sort of stuff...
I like your deviant wolfies by the way Eto, you're good.
Ja ne!
04 Dec 2009, 4:24 pm
I almost want to join now - personality quizzes are far too addictive... don't know if my boyfriend would approve though somehow!
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04 Dec 2009, 4:54 pm
When joining you can set your status to "in a relationship", and I don't know why he would mind. If he's confident about your relationship he will let you do whatever you want if you find it interesting.
That's what i told my ex girlfriend when she said that she was afraid of doing things because she thought that I might become jealous, I said no I'm no slave master and there's no leash around your neck go play if she would choose to fool around with somebody else it would end there and I would know that the relationship wasn't to be... and she found my trust very much a turn on and it made her happy she could spread her wings and be herself and playful.
So I guess you should join if you want to, and suspicion and jealousy shouldn't be a issue in a true relationship, those behaviors are just indications of insecurities.
+ there's a cool little robot dude guide getting you started telling you to fill in some info about yourself and then answering some questions, doing some tests. I was all for it and did it all till the last task on the introduction list:
¤ Now contact someone and get to know OkCupids users!
I was like,....... ok
04 Dec 2009, 5:27 pm
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04 Dec 2009, 6:07 pm
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04 Dec 2009, 6:34 pm
No I'm not. I have a tendency to demand some ME time and become quite dismissive or non verbal and that might look like I come across as a very selfish and stubborn person, thinking only of myself.
The sex part is pretty much accurate, I do have a fairly/overly horny persona and been like that since I was a little kid so I'm not going to deny my extreme attraction to sexual acts, but I do treat girls/women with respect and kindness, I can be quite of a trickster and a tease but I see to that I never hurt their feeling or mislead them beyond misinterpretation.
I do have a very playful character and I can come across a bit rude if you don't fully understand me or know me personally, some say I'm a cute and a total sweetheart and those who know me less label me more of a NT type playboy that comes across as playing cute and hard to get.
But basically I'm quite cuddly, kind and understanding.
It's just that I answer mosts tests that involve romance and sexual intercourse as playful rather then affectionate, because that's how I feel about the whole subject of sex.
NT tests are not for Aspies I guess...
If I read what you wrote (above) in an online profile, I would want to date you. My advice: use what you got, bro.
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04 Dec 2009, 7:08 pm
Thank you Hope.
That's why I didn't hide it as KenM said you could do, it's all true after all but just viewed from another perspective.
It's just funny as you read my introduction summary which is kinda light and then you check the questions and tests and I look like a perverted Mr. Hyde.
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04 Dec 2009, 7:19 pm
04 Dec 2009, 8:15 pm
sorry...I am Very new to the dating thing...and you guys are right, it was not an official link, it was from a particular "member" profile.
