Pip wrote:
I met this random guy at my university. We talked for about two and a half hours. I find him quite attractive, he doesn't mind my rants about movies (he actually engaged in them, asking me questions), and in casual conversation he mentioned all his basic information; his year, what dorms he was living in, his major, his career goals, the fact that he doesn't drink, basically everything but his name! That was back in October. It's now April and I saw him again for the first time since. He goes to the gym everyday and perhaps I will see him again but I doubt he remembers me even though the first time we met I seemed to have made quite an impression on him, and quite frankly, I think he's too good looking for me. I really liked this guy and felt comfortable around him (a rare thing), should I even bother approaching him if I see him again?
If you knew where he hangs out - all you had to do was go look for him.
Are you prepared to have SEX?
For some guys - regardless of how you look, and looks can be improved upon - but just cleaning up your act and conforming to the norms of society - no flaky colored hair, no weird clothes etc, some make up etc... If a guy knows that you are willing to be in a committal type / sexual relationship - he might forget some of your other attributes.
Its kind of weird because you are bringing it up now - when it is time to go home.. Finals are just around the corner.
Maybe you have been hiding all this time, hoping not to meet him so you can fantasize about him.
MAYBE THE IMAGE YOU BUILT OF HIM IN YOUR MIND IS A LOT NICER THEN THE PERSON YOU ACTUALLY MET.