Edit: This was gathered from a conversation in the WP chatroom.
I have some ideas on guidlines of how to "meet" someone, and hopefully get a date. Others who
wish to contribute to this feel free, this is a way to figure out how to get a date without being
NT. The goal of this is hopefully to create one or more possible layouts on what to do to "meet"
somebody. (Eg; date) Others are welcome (and encouraged) to post their own layout.
- - Guidlines
1 NEVER ask for a date on the first conversation.
2 Talk to them for a while before. (Builds trust)
3 Make sure to converse for a while before asking
4 Make sure to converse for them over a period of at LEAST several days
5 Try to make the date 'proposal' look spontaneous
6 Do not put weight on the conversation
7 Don't offer yourself on a tray (Don't offer an arm and leg for a date)
- - Conversation layout 1 -
1 - Small talk (other people, gossip, etc, you don't have to like it) over several days.
2 - Try to get her/him to talk about her/himself after enough small talk
3 - Try to make the conversation into one about feelings after a while
4 - find what's on her/his mind (then talk about it)
07 Mar 2006, 8:49 pm
