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08 Jan 2010, 12:31 pm

As a little girl i knew i would meet a guy. not just any guy but my soul mate. I knew i would be away from him for a very long time before we were finally together.
I knew when we finally were together we would live happily ever after.

I did not know when i would meet him but i spent years looking for him. even though i knew i could not change fate and i would only meet him when fate decided.

I knew what he was like. he was a hopeless romantic. kind caring, not like a guy at all, more like a girl in a mans body. he would always tell me how beautiful i am and he would be very open with his emotions.

I waited and when i was 18 i started to lose hope. i had not found him. where was he? was all this in my head? everything in me said it was true and i knew it was. but it seemed impossible. how could I somehow know someone i had yet to meet.

One day i lost hope and i prayed for him. and my prayer was answered.

I was being bullied on a forum and a guy stuck up for me and as we got talking we both "felt" connected.

We started talking and realized we both had dreamed about each other growing up. we had the same interests. and he was exactly as i thought he would be.

We both lived in different country's. but he flew all the way over to see me even though he had no money at all. he ended up 3 thousand pounds in debt. but thats how much he loves me. he was willing to do all that just to show me how much he loved me.

he flew over again shortly after because i missed him. and then he had no mean's to come over again.

We talked every day online through skype. he had so much in common. we watched the same shows growing up. we liked the same music , and what we didn't have in common connected us quite well.

I'm artistic and he is technical minded. so he loves when i sing to him and i love that he can fix my computer.

He is so kind , smart, loving and forgiving.

when he met me all i ever did was cry, because i had had a bad life and was very over medicated. He used to say to me if he could get me to smile at least once in the day that was enough . he said it made him so happy to see my smile come out.

over time he made me happy again. it took years but i'm not depressed any more. and that is ALL THANKS TO HIM.

This is a fairy tale.
A true one.

After i met him i quickly found out he knew he would meet me. he said he knew he would meet a girl that sang as good as Britney spears, was American, from Florida ,with blond hair (that was my color back then). and was very ditsy but extremely smart.

He knew me, just like i knew him.

I don't tell this to people because it sounds impossible. but it is true.

We are both psychic and we both knew that no matter how bad life was if we got through it we would meet each other.

now there was a very small catch. I knew we would spend years waiting to see each other again . I knew this years before i met him. he would be very far away. we would (i assumed) write letters. well we had the internet and we talked that way.

Its been 3 years since Ive seen him in person. yes ,3 years.

They say anything worth while is worth waiting for.
its true.

and now, 7 pm American time tomorrow, i will see him. just-you is flying in to see me. I bought him a ticket. i saved forever and now i got him one.

I am so excited.

I waited for him my whole life. and now he will be staying with me for almost 3 months. we even get to spend valentines day together.

i hope each and every one of you find love like this. it changes you whole world. it makes life better.

it may seem impossible that this happened . that we knew each other before we met. we even talked psychically when we were very young. I know many of you may not believe me.

But I write this for those of you who do. This happens. where do you think Hollywood gets it?

And one day another miracle will happen and we will live together for life. we have both seen it and we both know it will happen just like we both knew we would meet.

For those of you who believe in this. remember you dreams.
some of them are real and if your true to yourself , to these dreams and you follow them they will come true.

this is a real life love story.

I hope it happens to you someday.

Wish me luck and happiness for tomorrow. I'm going to see the man of my dreams..........
:heart: :drunken:

If you have a true life love story post it here. i know I'm not the only one. but i feel like the luckyist girl in the whole universe.

a big thanks to god. amen. and a big thank you to just-you :heart: who made all my dreams come true!



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08 Jan 2010, 1:08 pm

just-me wrote:
i hope each and every one of you find love like this. it changes you whole world. it makes life better.

I did find love like this once. Before that, I felt as though i was just existing in the world, not actually living in it. But after that first love, for the first time in my life I truly felt alive. The only problem is that she broke it off. We're still friends, but i miss the new life she breathed into me...



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08 Jan 2010, 2:24 pm

Don't you feel guilty for making him fly over to see you so many times when he had no money?



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08 Jan 2010, 3:03 pm

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Don't you feel guilty for making him fly over to see you so many times when he had no money?


That's basically what I'm thinking. Priorities.


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08 Jan 2010, 4:17 pm

I hope it all goes well and happy.



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08 Jan 2010, 5:32 pm

Good luck!



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08 Jan 2010, 6:19 pm

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Don't you feel guilty for making him fly over to see you so many times when he had no money?


Well thats part of the reason i bought his ticket. I didn't know he had spent so much money and he did not tell me because he did not want me to worry. i thought it was such an amazing thing for him to do though. he is the greatest man i have ever met.



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08 Jan 2010, 6:25 pm

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Good luck!


Thanks! :D



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08 Jan 2010, 6:25 pm

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I hope it all goes well and happy.


thank you so much! :D



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08 Jan 2010, 6:27 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
just-me wrote:
i hope each and every one of you find love like this. it changes you whole world. it makes life better.

I did find love like this once. Before that, I felt as though i was just existing in the world, not actually living in it. But after that first love, for the first time in my life I truly felt alive. The only problem is that she broke it off. We're still friends, but i miss the new life she breathed into me...


I'm sorry that you lost such a great love. love will find its way in again someday.

I wish you all the best of luck !



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08 Jan 2010, 8:43 pm

Not trying to take away from your euphoria, but "true love" is really just a biological/chemical reaction we experience, and it can happen with thousands, if not millions of potential mates. It is all just a process which enables us to reproduce and fulfill our subconscious needs.

But don't get me wrong, I'm happy for you. Just don't become so jaded that you get hurt.



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08 Jan 2010, 10:12 pm

hii..
I'm quite new here and interested with ur story...

However i also had same story.. problem is we haven't meet yet... hopefully is this end of month he will come here... to Indonesia far away country from Germany which is the country he comes from...

We meet also from online site... from same interested of language and poetry until we feel a common in our life and we felt we were made for each others.. we can feel each other so well even without words we can know what other felt.. so do if we are sick.. if i sick he can felt it and so do when he sick.. funny isn't??

Many man would not believe it i knew but is truly happen to me and my man live... but Just me.. i knew well what u told there and i believe is true...

for now i can't visit to Germany because of Visa problem as an Asian especially Indonesia we got problems for getting Europe Visa.. that's why really wish this time plan for meeting this end of month will not failed as it happened 9 months a go.. coz he got job that can't be left juz like that... even if we can only spend next 3 weeks together instead of 3 months but i already feel glad if i can meet him personally at last....

Wish we both Luck... when Love in it everything can be done and he also will fly almost half of the World juz to meet up and is also a long travel for him... today he will fly to Florida for his Job and then India after that hopefully is here....

Wish u also wish me luck ok???
we both wish luck for both of us...

Cheers.....



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09 Jan 2010, 12:22 pm

just-me wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
I did find love like this once. Before that, I felt as though i was just existing in the world, not actually living in it. But after that first love, for the first time in my life I truly felt alive. The only problem is that she broke it off. We're still friends, but i miss the new life she breathed into me...


I'm sorry that you lost such a great love. love will find its way in again someday.


Yeah, somehow I doubt that. There just aren't any women anywhere near my age in my life anymore... no faint thought of a hope of a possibility of me ever finding love again...



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09 Jan 2010, 10:05 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
just-me wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
I did find love like this once. Before that, I felt as though i was just existing in the world, not actually living in it. But after that first love, for the first time in my life I truly felt alive. The only problem is that she broke it off. We're still friends, but i miss the new life she breathed into me...


I'm sorry that you lost such a great love. love will find its way in again someday.


Yeah, somehow I doubt that. There just aren't any women anywhere near my age in my life anymore... no faint thought of a hope of a possibility of me ever finding love again...


Just-you thought the same thing. he was about your age when we met.
Don't lose hope, you never know what can happen. either way i wish you the best of luck!



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09 Jan 2010, 10:08 pm

CKoppe wrote:
hii..
I'm quite new here and interested with ur story...

However i also had same story.. problem is we haven't meet yet... hopefully is this end of month he will come here... to Indonesia far away country from Germany which is the country he comes from...

We meet also from online site... from same interested of language and poetry until we feel a common in our life and we felt we were made for each others.. we can feel each other so well even without words we can know what other felt.. so do if we are sick.. if i sick he can felt it and so do when he sick.. funny isn't??

Many man would not believe it i knew but is truly happen to me and my man live... but Just me.. i knew well what u told there and i believe is true...

for now i can't visit to Germany because of Visa problem as an Asian especially Indonesia we got problems for getting Europe Visa.. that's why really wish this time plan for meeting this end of month will not failed as it happened 9 months a go.. coz he got job that can't be left juz like that... even if we can only spend next 3 weeks together instead of 3 months but i already feel glad if i can meet him personally at last....

Wish we both Luck... when Love in it everything can be done and he also will fly almost half of the World juz to meet up and is also a long travel for him... today he will fly to Florida for his Job and then India after that hopefully is here....

Wish u also wish me luck ok???
we both wish luck for both of us...

Cheers.....
I'm so glad you shared your story. It must be rough having to deal with the visa process. I'm very fortunate that just-you didn't need a visa because it is not needed between our 2 country's.

I wish you the very best of luck i hope that your visa passes. good luck and lots of happiness.