Dudes--Getting hit on.

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I get hit on very occasionally but it never bothers me.

The only thing I don't like is rejecting the women I'm not attracted to.


Too bad every day isn't Sadie Hawkins day...

I get hit on from time to time but I don't like getting hit on if they are being sarcastic about it. I'd prefer to be ignored because getting hit on that way makes me feel so bad. Right now there's a girl after me who hits on me all the time; she's very attractive but I know she's not my type. The one thing that annoys me the most is she has a boyfriend. They all do, don't they it seems? She keeps asking me to take her on a date yet I know she has a boyfriend. Girls can be so cruel. Why would I want anything to do with a girl who has a boyfriend already? In the end I've gotten hit on in innocent ways many times actually which I don't mind but I certainly hate getting hit on by girls who are supposedly taken.

If she mock hits on your again, Just tell
her she is too ugly for you, I have done
that before, but I think it is because
I lost control of myself, I do not have
very good self control and I tend to bust
out and do mean things if someone is
being mean to me, it tends me to make
me have a raection.

I get hit on a lot and it bothers me, as it is frequently done by someone who has been put up to it, and / or is just out to be able to say that they got me to do something out of charecter. In the few cases that have been people I could possibly accept I still ran away, because I did not know what was the right thing to do, and also I have been conditioned to be quite embarresed about such things, so I am generaly uncomfortable whith the whole idea of romantic relationships not because I don't want one, but there is alot of familial conditioning to get past first.

I get hit on a lot. Whether flirting or with fists, girls hit on me quite a bit. I hate it. Just leave me alone you wenches! I don't even know why girls hit on me. I'm a big ugly white dude with a huge nose and yellow teeth, and I'm socially awkward, I curse a lot, and I pace in circles, yet somehow I've been stalked by two girls that were in love with me, and I've also been dragged into the womens bathroom because some girl wanted me really bad. Is it so inconceivable why I don't know why girls don't like me? I don't show interest in them, so naturally they just want me more. I think it's because I don't have an emotional stake in girlfriends, so this attracts women. Or at least that's my theory anyway. In any case, I wish I was really ugly. That way girls would leave me alone. Then again, I could always hot-glue some cornflakes to my face. That should do the trick. As for the fists, girls like to punch me, and when I ask them about it they say it's fun to hit people. I'm not sure why they choose me though. I told this one girl that I had a small penis. Naturally, she thought it was really big. So yeah, this sucks. Wanna trade? Anyone?

The last girl to use a fist on me had
to pay my ambulance bill because
it caused a seizure.

One thing I do to keep them away is
to dress in my Pooh and Tigger playclothes.

The main reason I do tho is because I
like to dress happy, for mty own reason.

Depending on your idea of what being "hit on" is, either seldom or never.

I've been falsely hit on before (by manipulative women trying to use me for my brainpower), and that wasn't fun. I wish women that really liked me would hit on me, but then again that point is moot because women generally don't like me...

I don't think she's asking you to treat her to dinner and a movie. Sounds like she means a twenty-minute 'date' in a broom closet.


Actually, it may be that she senses your social awkwardness and is simply taunting you to be cruel.


I've experienced both and on occasion misread one for the other. Been 'hit on' and merely flirted with, and personally, I prefer hit on, because its not dependent on me to then escalate the encounter by being coy. Its more of a yes or no question - do ya wanna or dontcha wanna? In most cases, the answer is a simple "Yes, please" and "Thank you very much!"

Now get dressed and get out.

Call me.


Leave a message, I won't answer.

I don't think I've ever consciously thought I'm being seriously hit on, but I've had a few occasions when people have told me after the fact that that's what was happening...

Needless to say my reaction's to those revelations are not entirely positive.

I don't really understand people who wouldn't want to be hit on - after all, it must simplify the interaction dynamic to something approximating a yes/no choice, even if the stakes are raised slightly it seems a worthwhile trade-off.

Obviously though there're a lot of social conditions at play, not to mention this thread lacks a clear definition of what being hit on is in this context, which makes me sad =(

Well, I don't want to be hit on, and the reason is because I've found that women are twice as likely as men to be full of crap. So naturally, since I have a very low tolerance for things like that, I try to avoid women, because the odds aren't in their favor. Am I sexist? Maybe. Am I an as*hole? Probably. I suppose that's why women like me...sigh...

I've been hit on / flirtted with a couple of times that I know of. I only know if it because someone else pointed it out to me after the fact.

Don't think I've ever been "hit on". Don't care, though, since I would have no idea how to react if it did happen!

You needed another category: Wouldnt know if he gets hit on . . . (which would probably cover a good number of use here ). <raises hand on this one>.

i get hit on every so often, and i do like it, but at the same time it makes me uncomfortable because i often don't know how to respond

I wouldn't recognise if a woman was hitting on me. I am way below that level of social awareness. Unless a woman walked up to me and flat out asked me to f*** her, I honestly would just think she was being friendly.