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09 Feb 2010, 3:53 pm

On my Monday and Wednesday classes I sit beside a girl who I have gotten to know over the last 6 months. I sit beside her constantly every Monday and Wednesday. She always comes and talks with me and she seems really comfortable around me. Sometimes she emails me and asks me if I can give her my notes if she misses a class. She even laughed at one of my jokes. How do I tell if she is into me, and how should I pursue?



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09 Feb 2010, 3:59 pm

How old are you?


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09 Feb 2010, 4:03 pm

Kenjuudo wrote:
How old are you?


I am 20 years old and in second year university; she's 19.



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09 Feb 2010, 4:09 pm

Ok, welcome to WrongPlanet. :)

I don't know how you can tell if she's into you, so you'll just have to take your chances. Just ask her out or something. Note that she will pull you out into the yard after your hair, then proceed to kick you and point and laugh while the whole school stands in a circle and cheer if she doesn't want to come with you. (Okay, that was a joke, but I hope you see how not-dangerous this is).


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09 Feb 2010, 4:22 pm

Price wrote:
On my Monday and Wednesday classes I sit beside a girl who I have gotten to know over the last 6 months. I sit beside her constantly every Monday and Wednesday. She always comes and talks with me and she seems really comfortable around me. Sometimes she emails me and asks me if I can give her my notes if she misses a class. She even laughed at one of my jokes. How do I tell if she is into me, and how should I pursue?


My opinion is that email is good for this. Other women here have expressed differently but for me - a funny, clever email asking me to coffee would be most likely to work in this situation. Good luck!


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09 Feb 2010, 4:27 pm

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thank-you for the welcoming and advice



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09 Feb 2010, 5:09 pm

You won't know, just go for it. As BetsyRath suggested keep it informal. Accept whatever results. Not sure about email, it could be an option, but you could also use the opportunity to practice face to face.



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09 Feb 2010, 5:30 pm

I'm going to vote against email.

I was conversing with a girl(she was in a couple of my classes) over email one time and got on really well but in person it was CLUNNNKKKK.



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09 Feb 2010, 6:26 pm

Check to see if her pupils are dilated. Dilated pupils are a sign of attraction.



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09 Feb 2010, 6:39 pm

Good luck!



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09 Feb 2010, 6:43 pm

Go up to her with really strong garlic breath and loudly ask her out while picking your nose and scratching your nuts.



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09 Feb 2010, 6:45 pm

Tequila wrote:
Go up to her with really strong garlic breath and loudly ask her out while picking your nose and scratching your nuts.
8O

Just ask her out. She says either yes or no.


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09 Feb 2010, 7:11 pm

hellopeople wrote:
Check to see if her pupils are dilated. Dilated pupils are a sign of attraction.
Or being on medication :P



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09 Feb 2010, 7:48 pm

isn't asking dating advice on this board sorta like asking William Hung for singing lessons?


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10 Feb 2010, 4:53 pm

Good luck, man!

I'm doing something similar in my Spanish class at college.


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13 Feb 2010, 9:21 pm

maleb wrote:
isn't asking dating advice on this board sorta like asking William Hung for singing lessons?


That quote just made my night!! !! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

One belief is that you're not going to develop good dating skills if you don't go out with girls, or even try to.