Holiday romance is better then none.

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28 Feb 2010, 1:34 pm

I have decided to go on vacation as a holiday romance is probably better then none, though it only last a week or less.I figured that I am unlikely ever to find someone to relate to let alone love. I can book a cheap flight using this website, however I am not good at booking hotels, hostels, bed-and-breakfast and the other stuff to make the vacation complete. Any ideas.

http://flightchecker.moneysavingexpert. ... rip#search



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28 Feb 2010, 1:47 pm

Kayak.com has the option to hire cars and hotels... I've never tried to use it for overseas, but it might be worth looking at.



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28 Feb 2010, 4:17 pm

Aspie_Chav wrote:
I have decided to go on vacation as a holiday romance is probably better then none, though it only last a week or less.I figured that I am unlikely ever to find someone to relate to let alone love. I can book a cheap flight using this website, however I am not good at booking hotels, hostels, bed-and-breakfast and the other stuff to make the vacation complete. Any ideas.

http://flightchecker.moneysavingexpert. ... rip#search


While I find nothing wrong with your decision, I don't understand why you think that you are unlikely to ever find anyone to love! There are trillions of people on this planet, however wrong a planet it seems at times. Why are you so convinced that there is no one for you, amongst this great wealth of people? Just curious.


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28 Feb 2010, 4:41 pm

hartzofspace wrote:
Aspie_Chav wrote:
I have decided to go on vacation as a holiday romance is probably better then none, though it only last a week or less.I figured that I am unlikely ever to find someone to relate to let alone love. I can book a cheap flight using this website, however I am not good at booking hotels, hostels, bed-and-breakfast and the other stuff to make the vacation complete. Any ideas.

http://flightchecker.moneysavingexpert. ... rip#search


While I find nothing wrong with your decision, I don't understand why you think that you are unlikely to ever find anyone to love! There are trillions of people on this planet, however wrong a planet it seems at times. Why are you so convinced that there is no one for you, amongst this great wealth of people? Just curious.


Ive met him, he is tall, handsome, funny, clever and interesting, I dont understand how he could not have luck with women.



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28 Feb 2010, 5:19 pm

lotusblossom wrote:
hartzofspace wrote:
Aspie_Chav wrote:
I have decided to go on vacation as a holiday romance is probably better then none, though it only last a week or less.I figured that I am unlikely ever to find someone to relate to let alone love. I can book a cheap flight using this website, however I am not good at booking hotels, hostels, bed-and-breakfast and the other stuff to make the vacation complete. Any ideas.

http://flightchecker.moneysavingexpert. ... rip#search


While I find nothing wrong with your decision, I don't understand why you think that you are unlikely to ever find anyone to love! There are trillions of people on this planet, however wrong a planet it seems at times. Why are you so convinced that there is no one for you, amongst this great wealth of people? Just curious.


Ive met him, he is tall, handsome, funny, clever and interesting, I dont understand how he could not have luck with women.


Really? Aspie_Chav, keep your options and your mind open. You seem to have a lot going for you! :)


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01 Mar 2010, 7:42 am

Holidays romances are great! You both know it's going to end, so they're a lot more laid back and open, and the time constraints means the whole process of 'dating' gets squashed into an hour or so over a drink.

You get to eb yourself, or how you want to be and it can really boost your confidence and social skills quickly.

Definitely recommend it!

(just a warning; I never went this far with mine, but if you're planning on going past 2nd base, bring protection and get tested for STIs when you return- v important)



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01 Mar 2010, 9:52 am

& 6 mo later.......


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01 Mar 2010, 10:15 am

As long as you can afford it.

Hell if I was rich enough I'd go anywhere. Anywhere is better than pining away in singleton land. I also don't think being single is as bad as some of you guys make it out to be but that's just me.

Also I'm just as surprised as Lotus Blossom as to why you're "unworthy" of women or why women haven't asked you out.


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01 Mar 2010, 10:39 am

Wait, what do you mean by "holiday romance"? Do you have someone who will meet you in said place? Someone who wants to come with you?



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01 Mar 2010, 1:31 pm

Romance with someone you meet on vacation, oversees. It is easier to find love while on vacation but I have never really wormed to it because it is very short term.



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01 Mar 2010, 2:31 pm

I wouldn't have that expectation. I fear you may be disappointed.



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02 Mar 2010, 4:31 pm

Hector wrote:
I wouldn't have that expectation. I fear you may be disappointed.


I cant go though my life expecting nothing