Any female gay/queer Aspies here?

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02 Jan 2010, 7:22 am

Enquiring minds want to know 8)


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02 Jan 2010, 7:32 am

None? :(


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02 Jan 2010, 7:42 am

You need to give it more time. :)


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02 Jan 2010, 11:13 am

Still nowt :(


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02 Jan 2010, 12:43 pm

Do you mean lesbians? Sorry if I sound dense, but I do not know if you mean lesbians, gender queer, non heterosexual... so I figured I would just ask. :)


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02 Jan 2010, 12:48 pm

Lesbians, bisexuals, pansexuals - I don't mind :)


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02 Jan 2010, 1:15 pm

Right on. I always described myself as bisexual, but I wonder if pansexual is more fitting and appropriate, as I would not care if someone was or was not a person who did not fall into a generic male or female category. I joke about being a sexual agnostic, but I really think that sums it up best for me. I might not know what my preference is, but I am okay with that uncertainty. Heh.


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02 Jan 2010, 1:22 pm

If I got a sex change, would that count? 8) 8O :wink: :roll:



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02 Jan 2010, 1:31 pm

dossa wrote:
Right on. I always described myself as bisexual, but I wonder if pansexual is more fitting and appropriate, as I would not care if someone was or was not a person who did not fall into a generic male or female category. I joke about being a sexual agnostic, but I really think that sums it up best for me. I might not know what my preference is, but I am okay with that uncertainty. Heh.


Yeah I know what you mean. I'm struggling to find a label that really fits (even though I question why I need something as silly as a label in the first place :roll: ). I used to identify as solely gay when I was 16 up to when I was about 19 but certain things made me reconsider. I think I'm pansexual.

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If I got a sex change, would that count? 8) 8O :wink: :roll:


If you genuinely were transgendered, then yes :D


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02 Jan 2010, 1:59 pm

Hi.
I used to be only interested in girls but lately I've liked a few guys as well.
So I guess I'm bisexual then.

Why you looking for them?



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02 Jan 2010, 2:01 pm

Just interested to see how many are here.


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02 Jan 2010, 2:09 pm

Well, there was a similar topic on a Dutch Asperger's forum,
and it was surprising to see how many "aspie" girls are lesbians or bi's.
I don't know if that'd be the same around here.
Should be, but maybe it's more of a taboo because this is an American forum.
Who knows.



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02 Jan 2010, 2:17 pm

One thing I've noticed about Aspie forums is that there are quite a lot of transgendered folk here. For some reason.


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02 Jan 2010, 2:32 pm

That's interesting. What would Freud's answer be to that one?!



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02 Jan 2010, 5:44 pm

I am. I self-identify as queer. Only because I never really felt I fit in with 'lesbians'.



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18 Jan 2010, 11:16 pm

I still don't fully understand the diference between bi, pan, and omni...I was actually kind of curious myself only to see if there's a correlation between that and AS.