Help Tim Tex attract a partner

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26 Feb 2010, 5:39 pm

A lot of us, for various reasons want to see people here actually do something to help themselves.
I offered to help tim tex attract a partner and he accepted.

Basically whats going on here is me and anyone else who wants to help is going to try and analyze What Tim tex is like and give him offers to improve.

Things i need to know to start

What you currently look like - a recent picture would be very useful
the sort of clothes you wear
what styles appeal to you and what don't
What is your personality like in real life, what kind of people do you do things with
what industry do you work in/want to work in
what do you do for fun in your spare time currently

And we all know what sort of women he wants to attract, so, full steam ahead I say.

Tim Tex, when you're ready.



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26 Feb 2010, 5:45 pm

dont openly search for a girl with the high sex drive whos into the kink. there freaks, best bet is to find a good girl and turn her out



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26 Feb 2010, 5:49 pm

This isnt a thread to change what Tim tex wants in a partner, but to make him more attractive to prospects.



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26 Feb 2010, 5:57 pm

He could stop obsessing about finding a conservative christian, who likes South Park for one thing.... :D



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26 Feb 2010, 6:01 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
A lot of us, for various reasons want to see people here actually do something to help themselves.
I offered to help tim tex attract a partner and he accepted.

Basically whats going on here is me and anyone else who wants to help is going to try and analyze What Tim tex is like and give him offers to improve.

Things i need to know to start

What you currently look like - a recent picture would be very useful
the sort of clothes you wear
what styles appeal to you and what don't
What is your personality like in real life, what kind of people do you do things with
what industry do you work in/want to work in
what do you do for fun in your spare time currently

And we all know what sort of women he wants to attract, so, full steam ahead I say.

Tim Tex, when you're ready.


Ok, I'm ready.


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26 Feb 2010, 6:10 pm

This is just a game so I'll play.

What I think Tim Tex could do to make himself instantly more attractive to women:

Move

Move to another state that is at least 2 states removed from Texas.

Exotic is attractive. To Texas women, you are just another boring Texas man. Move at least 2 states away and you are instantly an exotic man from Texas with an exotic, intriguing accent. Exotic is erotic.



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26 Feb 2010, 6:17 pm

Try some disposable contacts. I think that would be a good area to experiment with.


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26 Feb 2010, 6:31 pm

The haircut is a big one. And polo shirts are a no-go, so burn any polo shirts you have.



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26 Feb 2010, 6:58 pm

Well yeah, one thing would be his damn near hard to satisfy picky-ness.
If he was just even 10% open ( exageration i guess) he would have it alot easier.
Especialy the fact that it has to be a religious person. A person can still be a great individual, even if they arent religious.
I'm an atheist, but my girlfriend does believe in spirits and such. So personaly, PERSONALY i dont really believe in such things, but i still respect what she believes in, even if she was religious, as long as she would not try to convert me all the time i wouldn't care, OR if the relgion got in the way of the relationship.



Something, he can do about himself is....
his GLASSES and haircut.
Seriously, if the glasses you got on in your display picture are the ones you have now, i can understand abit why women arent looking to much at ya.
The glasses look old, and old school nerdy to.
If you want it nerdy, fine, but maybe something more fashionable would do.

I used to have glasses with a thin frame, the ones i have now are a nudges thicker and black, so they are more dominant, and the shape fits to my face/head to. they give off a nerdy/different look, BUT also fashionable ( well ok i'm not THAT much into fashion, but who dosnt care atleast abit what they look like?)
But since he's older, i guess some different glasses would do the trick for him.

Maybe working out abit to ( no idea how his body is like)
Women generaly like a guy who has a 6 pack and all that crap, but just to be more yourself, getting abit toned would be better.

And a different haircut, the one you have now, or atleast in the picture, is kinda, plain : / ( maybe longer hair?)

I guess to put a long story short:
- Stop being so damn picky, it restricts your choice, and lessens the odds alot.
- "Spice" yourself abit more up( example, glasses, hair style, clothing style). Right now, in my opnion, you look really boring and plain, nothing strikes me as "different yet interesting".



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26 Feb 2010, 7:05 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
What you currently look like - a recent picture would be very useful
the sort of clothes you wear


That is not the first thing one ought to be demanding of a woman. Especially an Aspie. Even if she's a total goddess, there is a chance that she is not completely confident in this for herself, so your question may come off feeling more like an assault than genuine interest.

Personally, if this was the approach I received from a man online, I wouldn't even bother with him. Period.


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26 Feb 2010, 7:06 pm

IslandAspie wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
What you currently look like - a recent picture would be very useful
the sort of clothes you wear


That is not the first thing one ought to be demanding of a woman. Especially an Aspie. Even if she's a total goddess, there is a chance that she is not completely confident in this for herself, so your question may come off feeling more like an assault than genuine interest.

Personally, if this was the approach I received from a man online, I wouldn't even bother with him. Period.


Good for you jimmy!



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26 Feb 2010, 7:08 pm

Good luck. You guys will need all you can muster....


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26 Feb 2010, 7:11 pm

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Good luck. You guys will need all you can muster....

Nah, only if you plan to stick through with this, i dont.
I just think this could turn out to be very interesting and entertaining =3



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26 Feb 2010, 7:18 pm

Unfair or not, people are judged by how they present themselves. Tim, right now, and I don't mean it to be insulting, from the looks of his pic looks like the quiet guy at work that is one step away from flipping out. That's what he's telling the world with his haircut and glasses, and most likely his style and demeanor.

Considering he's said in the past that he wants Jessica Rabbit types...if he wants even a slight chance with that type of woman, he has to improve his look.

Let me emphasize that looks aren't everything. I dealt with a woman on a dating site yesterday that was easily a 9 on the 10 scale, but her personality (despite her having college degrees) was a 0 based on her attitude. Looks are only 50 percent of the battle...and given Tim's presentation and his depressive attitude, I'd say he's failing the test altogether at the moment.

I know this site wants to coddle people and protect their own, but this isn't an Aspie vs. NT thing, this is a common sense issue.



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26 Feb 2010, 7:21 pm

IslandAspie wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
What you currently look like - a recent picture would be very useful
the sort of clothes you wear


That is not the first thing one ought to be demanding of a woman. Especially an Aspie. Even if she's a total goddess, there is a chance that she is not completely confident in this for herself, so your question may come off feeling more like an assault than genuine interest.

Personally, if this was the approach I received from a man online, I wouldn't even bother with him. Period.


I think you misunderstood? She was asking for Tim's pic so she could help him make some adjustments with his appearance. She wasn't recommending that as a pick up strategy. :)


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26 Feb 2010, 7:25 pm

Tias wrote:
Something, he can do about himself is....
his GLASSES and haircut.
Seriously, if the glasses you got on in your display picture are the ones you have now, i can understand abit why women arent looking to much at ya.
The glasses look old, and old school nerdy to.
If you want it nerdy, fine, but maybe something more fashionable would do.


Disagree on the glasses. He looks fine with them and should not alter that aspect of his appearance.

Tias wrote:
I used to have glasses with a thin frame, the ones i have now are a nudges thicker and black, so they are more dominant, and the shape fits to my face/head to. they give off a nerdy/different look, BUT also fashionable ( well ok i'm not THAT much into fashion, but who dosnt care atleast abit what they look like?)


Fashionable? That is certainly a matter of taste...

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Women generaly like a guy who has a 6 pack and all that crap, but just to be more yourself, getting abit toned would be better.


Pure opinion from someone with very little experience...in life and with women. This is a media-fed bias that a woman desires a "six-pack" hardbody type. Those are actually pretty icky and scream nothing but "narcissist". Toned and healthy, yes, six pack not required to accomplish this.

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And a different haircut, the one you have now, or atleast in the picture, is kinda, plain : / ( maybe longer hair?)


Disagree here, too. Haircut is fine. Long hair on a man is sloppy and says "I don't care".

Tias wrote:
I guess to put a long story short:
- Stop being so damn picky, it restricts your choice, and lessens the odds alot.


The only thing in this post I can agree with.


Tias wrote:
- "Spice" yourself abit more up( example, glasses, hair style, clothing style). Right now, in my opnion, you look really boring and plain, nothing strikes me as "different yet interesting".


Disagreed again. He looks fine as is. Internals and subtleties are what need to be adjusted.


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