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it sounds so lame, but there's this girl ive been talking to for a year or so that i really like. i met her online(lame part) as just someone to talk to but she was really cool and we started talking on the phone and texting and whatnot, but i met her for the first time just last week. i went to the mall two days in a row and hung out with her both times. i think shes a beautiful amazing girl and i think she knows i like her but i dont know if she likes me but honestly ive liked her since before i met her and as soon as i started talking to her in person my feeling got like 20 times strong but idk what to do some advice would be greaatt

It's a good sign that she agreed to see you at the mall two times. That means you didn't freak her out the first time.

Ask her to go to a movie, concert, or something fun with you next time you see her. Worst she can say is no.

I definitely agree with Goat; now's the time to make it clear that you like her. Ask her to the cinema and if she says yes, buy her popcorn or something and suggest going for dinner after the film's over... she should pick up on the hint, and then the ball's in her court to say yes or no.

Don't do what a lot of people do here and try to slowly be friends for ad infinitum after they develop a crush- that's just torturing yourself and won't lead anywhere.

Thanks for the advice. I think ill try and take her to a concert we have very similar musical tastes. she said we were friends like the day we started talking and i know every thing about her and vice versa i just hope she likes me as more than a friend but idk how to tell without asking

Good man... Just don't stall. Act soon.

Regardless, enjoy your time, try not to get tense, try not to worry about what she thinks, focus on good times. And, as best you can manage it, flirt. Don't be platonic. That's not what you want, and that's not how you should act.