as I was saying lol

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I didn't say every NT girl, just a massive majority. I can speak from experience, don't plan on this "artsy" chick ever going beyond being friends with you. Even if she flirts around with you and leads you on, chances are it's just a game. One in a billion might actually give an aspie guy a chance. Also remember it is easier for aspie women to find someone, because the man does practically ALL the courting. She just has to say yay or ney.
I'm not trying to sound pessimistic, but the truth isn't always pretty. I'm not saying you won't find someone, but if you do it'll likely take a long time. Hopefully before your too old to be sexually active.
I still think aspies should primarily only date aspies right now, it'll eliminate the burden from the MEN who can't ever get a NT girl, and as for the girl, aspies will have a better relationship with aspies than NT's, as we understand eachother better. We have to formulate our own communities outside of NT America (or the world for that matter), fight our way without their help, then we can gain their respect. And once we gain more respect then and only then can we work towards better integration.

by the way, this was supposed to be a reply to my other post

Artsy and extraverted, you'd be right. But this particular girl is more subtle and introverted. She's showing good signs that other girls don't show as far as I'm concerned. Let's try and look on the bright side eh?



I kindly ask that you don't tell myself and other Aspies how to live our lives. Most young women, whether NT or Aspie, are equal candidates for my affection. Don't tell me that it'll take a long time, because it is discouraging. We are going to live our lives like NTs if we choose to, and I choose not to act like a disabled young man who only dates my own kind. I'm not going to be the kid that decides not to go to college because I have a life-threatening illness, but maybe that's what you'd do. If I was in a wheelchair, I wouldn't limit my dates to women in wheelchairs. When you have a handicap or illness, you have a choice - you can wimp around and complain that you'll never do what other people can do, or you can rise above it and do what you want to do. People who have been severely injured and lose the use of their legs will only walk again if they believe they will walk again.

Many Aspies DO find someone, NT or Aspie - just ask lots of people on this board.

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Snake~ So, what you are saying is that aspie women owe it to you (and other aspie men) to only date you since you can't get anyone else in your opinion? Wow, want us to make the earth revolve around you too? No one owes you anything just because they share a dx with you, and incidentally, dating for women isn't nearly as easy as you seem to think it is.

very eloquently and beautifully put i must say!