relationships are depressing

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Romantically downtrodden of all nations unite! I am sick and tired of being a spectator to NT's mating rituals. They go through it with no more awareness than a chimpanzee in the zoo. They find somebody in their unimaginative little world, in their meaningless little subset of normal, and then call their recreational sex true love. They flit from relationship to relationship until they find somebody to breed with and then call it true love....soul mates....significant others. The truth of the matter is that Karl Marx had it wrong - religion is not the opium of the masses, sex is. Let people initiate intercourse and they will succumb to any tyranny. Just watch CNN. Revolutionaries are all young people without sexual ties because when people develop sexual ties they get soft and complacent. What is love anyway but a biochemical wash of chemicals across the synaptic neurons. Sure, I would like a girlfriend, but I am not wired for a relationship. I cannot tolerate close physical proximity and I feel like a freak. Maybe I am a freak. But at least I have a brain and intelligence and I am not going to dissipate it in a relationship with an NT who is so stupid that I would probably have to hit her over the head to remind her to breathe. O.K. so maybe I am a little bit frustrated. There is an NT that I like who thinks that I am a refugee from outer space. It is all really depressing because what is so easy for NT's is so difficult for me. I find myself trying to socialize with these people and I cannot think of a damn thing to say. They talk and laugh and I really do not understand what is so funny. Is there a female out there who is wired like me? They say that for every shoe there is a mate, but I am the exception that proves the rule. There are a lot of relationship issues that get overlooked in an AS diagnosis, like low self esteem. It is all so stupid. I feel like I am normal yet whenever I get involved with other people I have no idea what to say or do. I could spend the rest of my life pursuing my narrow interests but I am in a search for greater normalcy.

I feel sorry that you think that way. But if sex is anything like....you know.....than it's probably fun considering it's two people and not just yourself. As for socializing, I've found that a lot of people here can help you with that, just look at the topic above this one and you might find some useful advice. I have already. That's part of what this site is about. Hope you find some useful advice.

i know that when i meet mrs. right, nothin will be able to stop me because i will have beaten my weakest point. women are my achilles heal. when it happens, i wanna place the foundation for something more meaningful then ill worry about sex. its looks like alot of fun but i dont wanna stress over something that lasts like 15 minutes. with AS, i feel that relationships should come first as they dont come around as often. Remember, tis better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all.
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what u talkin bout?
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WE need to give some of these NT's Saltpeter, a potence disruptor

ARRRRRRGHHHHHHH

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I don't think relationships are depressing. I just think they're stupid and pointless.

*independent woman*

I don't see what's wrong with relationships. I understand why you don't like public displays of affection, but relationships are alright. I've longed for a relationship with the opposite gender for a while now. I've failed multiple times, but that doesn't mean I should give up. Persistance is the answer to most problems. Keep trying, and you all will evantually succeed. If you don't want a relationship, I really, don't understand why. Please elaborate so I can understand your viewpoint.

Look like SN is the only one who is with me.
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hale_bopp said

I dont got problems with relationships, just extreme nervousness when it comes to starting them. Im sure they get better after they have been going on for a while.
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TAFKASH said:

Have a word with your doctor - medical science has come on leaps and bounds and there are some great and really discreet treatments available for that kind of thing these days....

What will he say next....
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