This boy just wants a girlfriend

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samtoo
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15 Jul 2010, 5:23 pm

Feel like a lost man walking through mist who desperately needs a compassionate hug.

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15 Jul 2010, 5:33 pm

I can relate - I really wish I could find an attractive girl I can click with who's able to love and accept me for who I am... :cry:

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15 Jul 2010, 5:46 pm

Try a dating website.

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15 Jul 2010, 5:48 pm

I'm a lonely bastard too. :oops:

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15 Jul 2010, 5:49 pm

Slipperman: I am sorry. Life is long and I am sure the right woman will come along for you. *Hug*
Kat15: Trying, not to much effect.
Jookia: I am sorry. Head up man. Things will work out. *Hug*

Think I'm impatient and emotionally volatile, and very lonely - I only have online friends, no one in real life as such. There are a couple of friends I talk to in real life on occasion but for the majority of the time it's all online.

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15 Jul 2010, 6:31 pm

I just recently started dating an NT guy and it is NOT easy. Sometimes I don't know whether i want to just stay alone and be lonely, or be with someone and be frustrated.

It is wonderful to have a relationship, but keep in mind that there are special circumstances involved with us... so take it SLOW.

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15 Jul 2010, 6:35 pm

Perhaps I'm kind of rebounding. I was recently with a girl from Denver, and it didn't work. I still want to be with her, and I find it infuriating that I can't be.

I spend most of my time online - absolutely most of my social time online.
And I go to bed at like 5, 6 in the morning because nothing ever happens.

I don't have a social life really other than on the internet and the occasional thing going on that is like only about 3 times a month max.

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15 Jul 2010, 7:03 pm

Hey. I'm a girl who has had no luck whatsoever in love, and has her days feeling lonely as hell. Don't worry. Someone will come along who loves you for who you are

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15 Jul 2010, 7:51 pm

adorable_yeti wrote:

Hey. I'm a girl who has had no luck whatsoever in love, and has her days feeling lonely as hell. Don't worry. Someone will come along who loves you for who you are

in that case....
http://www.youtube.com/user/oldspice?fe ... RbgOk9IHyM

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15 Jul 2010, 8:14 pm

Not exactly what this post is about, but close enough. And the first two words in the thread certainly fit:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzZdi2z7lHM[/youtube]

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15 Jul 2010, 9:08 pm

samtoo wrote:

Feel like a lost man walking through mist who desperately needs a compassionate hug.

(((hug)))

I know online isn't the same, but I hope this helps a little.

The right one will come along. I thought I'd be alone forever too (as did my bf) and we somehow found each other.

Take care.

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15 Jul 2010, 9:57 pm

Someone spike the punch at this pity party!

If you want to enjoy female affection, you're going to have to be able to play NT society's stupid little games. So much of what drives attraction is if a girl would want to be seen with you,

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15 Jul 2010, 9:58 pm

RICKY5 wrote:

Someone spike the punch at this pity party!

If you want to enjoy female affection, you're going to have to be able to play NT society's stupid little games. So much of what drives attraction is if a girl would want to be seen with you,

I'll live how I want to live. I don't care about stupid games.

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15 Jul 2010, 10:08 pm

samtoo wrote:

RICKY5 wrote:

Someone spike the punch at this pity party!

If you want to enjoy female affection, you're going to have to be able to play NT society's stupid little games. So much of what drives attraction is if a girl would want to be seen with you,

I'll live how I want to live. I don't care about stupid games.

More power to you. Play the stupid games to the extent that you have to to get what you want.

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15 Jul 2010, 10:08 pm

adorable_yeti: Good luck to you. I am sure everything will work out and the right person will come along. *Hug*
MrDiamondMind: lol that pretty much sums up what I feel with my ex. :lol: Good choice.
conundrum: Thank you very much. *Hug*

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15 Jul 2010, 10:21 pm

Hi Samtoo, I was in the same boat when I was your age, so I know how you feel. There is no magic advice I can give that will make it all better unfortunately. All I can say is put yourself out there, and good things happen when you least expect them.

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