help I going on my first date

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hi all I 25yo male from sydney and I meet someone online and she would like to meet me
This is my first date too ever and i don't have any female friends my age. I now scare and stess she would like to me to bring a friend i can now she got to get someone to come if her
Any one can help me with the long wait of meeting her?
she want to be friend first and i would like that I all so feel she scare to met me even she want to meet me

Any help would be nice

All so i not to good spelling so sorry if you don't understand

It sounds to me that she would like a casual really fun date. You might take her some flowers(not red roses/or carnations) but maybe something like daisies, or something bright and colorful. Find out what she enjoys doing and do it. Get a friend to go with you so it's a double date. You need to take a shower, wear deodorant, and wear clean clothes.

Some of the best dates I've been on include dates that are really well planned out or include romantic surprises. Like horse drawn carriages, nature walks, seeing something beautiful(like a sunset). Going someplace fun for lunch/dinner good food,( well lit, and interesting) Don't expect anything physical on a first date it's not likely to happen especially with two other people around. Don't try to get her alone that can come off as creepy instead make sure you are nice to the other "couple" Ask at least 5-7 questions about her and each of the other people(even if they are boring and the other couple are stupid too) but make sure they are appropriate and flow with the conversation(I frequently mess this up too but you should try)

Be sure to compliment her. Your clothes look nice, your hair looks nice, or some such....most women like that. Make sure you don't end up paired up with her friend on accident....Also be sure to ask if she would like to see you again at the end of the date and figure out something SHE would like to do to invite her to(casual and in public). This makes you look considerate.

on your Internet conversations with her, maybe ease from the personal to the more conversational. and not entirely of course, there still will be the personal, just a question of degree, and then when you meet together, you'll have somewhat of a baseline of more conversational topics and exchanges. (the Internet can be surprisingly personal, of course it can)

She probably just wants to feel safer about meeting a random dude off the internet by each bringing a friend.

Things sound fine, just that a group encounter might make her more willing to meet up with you.

good luck!

she does't want to have any more contact any more I don't know why I did noting wrong just trying too moke a time and last txt i got was "what do u look 4 bring with me"
I say " to be friend and maybe if we like ea other maybe a relationship"
well thank for the help guys.