Aspie male non-virgins, how did you lose it?

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I'm curious to hear stories about how the Aspie male non-virgins lost their virginity...who the girl was, what they had to do to attract the woman enough for her to want to sleep with them...what age it happened and so on.

I was 18 years old. My step-father decided the best thing to get my for my birthday was a prostitute. That is literally how it happened.

I was 30 when I finally had sex. The woman was a horny divorcee who hadn't had any for a long time. She had a 7 year old son which made it hard to date. I moved in with her. Once she realized the sex wasn't good enough and my mental health symptoms became apparent she kicked me out.

lost it at 18 to a horny unattractive chick.
i didn't have to do much, she was practically throwing herself at me.
I just saw an opportunity to finally get rid of the V-card, and i took it *shrug*.

I started working at a local radio station in the small town where I was living at the age of 16. Once I got over the terror of the mic fright and became comfortable doing the job, I started getting flirty with the girls who called in on the request line. Since I didn't have to actually see them, it was easier to relax and they were impressed with the job which, to them made me seem like a sort-of celebrity. After awhile I started going to meet some of the regular callers, dated a few, lost my cherry to one of them (at eighteen) in a moment that was awkward, embarrassing and disappointing for us both, but as soon as it was done we didn't have much time to bumble and feel stupid because her Dad came home and I exited in comedy-movie fashion, trying to step into my pants as I ran for the door. She wasn't allowed to see me anymore after that.

Then my family moved and I started working in a slightly larger market. The girl I really learned things properly from was a young single Mom known to the other DJs at the station as a notorious 'groupie' - who collected DJs as souvenirs. She invited me over, literally grabbed me by the junk and led me to the bedroom. From that point on, I quit worrying that no one was ever going to want me - I was still awkward and socially uncomfortable, but I figured there were at least some girls out there who would like me for who I was. Turned out there were a lot who did. It just took for me to stop being an Eeyore about it.

Once I had a little faith in myself, things just seemed to work themselves out. I was never as smooth as a lot of guys, but it didn't keep me from making a connection every once in a while. Looking back, it happened a lot more frequently than it seemed at the time. Back then if I went three months, it seemed like an unbearable dry spell.

I lost it at age 29 in a friend-with-benefits situation.

Tonight hopefully , my Aspie BF is going to finally lose it. I'm an Aspie myself and I was reluctant to date him when he told me he was still a virgin at 25. He said he has trouble with knowing if chicks are interested in him and stuff. He was really clueless, and didn't even pick up that I was slightly interested in him after he told me about his AS related symptoms. We've know each other for 6 or 7 years, but that's because I was friends with his sister. Despite his virginity being a turn off we both have the same special interests and can talk for hours about them. So I decided I'd give him a chance because I've never dated another Aspie and the NT guys I've dated made fun of me for my impaired social skills. Now to my surprise I' discovered these two months we've been dating is that even though he's a virgin he's pretty good at everything else. He's only had one girl friend before me and he only made out with her apparently. So I asked him how the hell did you get so skilled, you're a virgin right? His answer was lots of porn, lots and lots and lots. Apparently he's a visual learner and years of watching porn has turned him into some kind of super pervert capable of doing things that I didn't think virgins were capable of, so I told him next time I come over you're losing it. Biased off this experience my advise to Aspie men is to date Aspie chicks and watch lots of porn!! !! ! And always have condoms available. One of my old NT BF's used to always have one in his wallet.

I lost it at age 29 in a friend-with-benefits situation.

I lost it at age 29 in a friend-with-benefits situation.

I paid a prostitute. I am not ashamed to admit that.

I was about 14, and looking at skin mags (gay) at a local dépanneur. True to awkward teen stereotype I was not nearly so discreet as I thought I was, but it did provide an opportunity for another guy to make his move.

After that, it was back to his place, and the rest, as they say, is history!

I was 17 and I had meet a girl at college who was talking to someone I knew. We got to know each other and not long after we had sex.

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I fell under a combine harvester.