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J-P
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30 Oct 2010, 6:43 pm

I don't think i have a chance with dating being a fachist(strongly motived by xenophobia caused by repeted psychological agression by strangers in my school years over years).. I heard low income have no chance too. God i'm low income so i have no chance?I have also they need...stupid women. That tell me that my sexism is founded. It's become stronger each day i see women accomplishment and success. I'm a bit jealous of couple i see on street for exemple. I wish demonstrating affection on public place was forbidden by law. Now i'm a greedy and jealous and full of hate aspie who resent female and people in general. I have my needs in love and sexuality same if an aspie and and intentionally deprive me is cruel and unhuman. I hate being in that state but i have 1 friend only and i see him 3-4 time a year he remains too far(Eastern Borough of Montreal). I don't go outside my house often i'm affraid of exterior. Montreal is urban jungle with nearly 2 millions inhabitants. I'm too nervous to approach girl because i don't know if she alrealdy engaged or will push me back. Now i don't how to express my sexuality other than masturbation. Other side to hate opposite gender i want to have one experience with girl. Close my favorite hentai site and i'm in dispair. By chance it's a paying site then they have something to keep it up. I think if a girl want to give me a chance to prove myself my sexism will disappear.. im just disgusting by the women behavior...forget that i have 0 social skill for that. The best for me would meet someone on this forum from Montreal,Quebec with same interest. In that case the girl will be the lucky one to have the mail of awesome man...and it's not a joke. Anyway i'm not a jerk so i have zero chance. I'm kind the most time with women. I would appreciate to talk to someone with near or same way of thinking. It's sucks to have nobody to socialize regularly

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30 Oct 2010, 7:02 pm

wow. wow.

jerks only get women because they have an air of mystery and danger. stop generalizing. we are not all like that! but, confidence is sexy, as is having a skill of some sort. If you have a skill that you're proud of, then you can be confident.

and remember, most people only show the world what they want them to see.

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30 Oct 2010, 7:19 pm

jamesongerbil wrote:

I can only show my computer skills. I have nothing more and girl don't care about computer

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30 Oct 2010, 7:22 pm

Golly J-P, you've really presented us with a mass of stuff. I can't cope with all that at once.

I'll just make a few points.

1. You really want to talk to people who don't share your views, because you're views don't seem to be making you happy, and you need some help to get to what will make you happy, not someone to support your entrenchment in your current way of thinking.

2. Hating women won't get you what you want, so you may as well stop it. Best thing I ever did was to forgive womankind.

3. You may not have to be on low income forever. Maybe you can think about ways to change your situation.

4. Women don't really like real jerks unless they are quite damaged. What women really appreciate is caring, confident, skilful, giving people.

5. If you can see a professional for some counselling that might not be a bad idea. See your doctor.

6. Failing that, weigh the pros and cons of your beliefs, and see whether they are working for or against you. Get someone to help if need be. Discussions on the forums here are good, the Haven is a good place to get help.

7. I'm sorry you are suffering, and I wish I could do something a bit more to help you. May you find some happiness.

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30 Oct 2010, 7:33 pm

J-P wrote:

Montreal is urban jungle with nearly 2 millions inhabitants. I'm too nervous to approach girl because i don't know if she alrealdy engaged or will push me back. Now i don't how to express my sexuality other than masturbation.

Dude, you said "Montreal". There's your answer! I'm sure you already know, but in case you don't, prostitution is legal in Canada. Man up, get over yourself, and see an escort. It'll run you about $300. Or go to a massage parlor without full service that costs less than $100. It's not ideal, but it's hell of a lot better than nothing. She'll relieve your sexual tension, and maybe teach you a few things about pleasing a woman. You'll be a better person for having done it, and don't use a "I will not pay for sex" excuse, unless you have a legitimate moral concern. Once you demystify sex for yourself, you'll respect yourself and the female gender a whole lot more. Just one word of warning: don't see street girls, 'cause that's really putting yourself in danger.

All in all, be thankful that you don't live in the United States of Conservatism, where seeing a sex worker is a felony in some states, possession of marijuana gets you two weeks of jail time if you're lucky, and Tea Partiers lobby to send the middle class into poverty. Peace, out.

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30 Oct 2010, 7:38 pm

actually, your sexism makes you sound quite a lot like a jerk. i am assuming that you are not a jerk, but if you want girls to date you, then changing the way you view women will take you a lot farther. hating women for your failure pretty much guarantees more failure.

Moog has it nailed down tight. read his advice, because he knows what he is talking about.

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30 Oct 2010, 7:39 pm

Aspie1 wrote:

J-P wrote:

Good idea for the massage.. hard to call an escort when live in parent house

Moog wrote:

I don't know if i can do all. I have big learn problem. If my doctor get me a protected job it's low income. I don't want to finish my secondary school at 30. experience years loss...i can,t accept it and fachism is the solution to stop immigrant invasion..supress they right. And i hate liberals and democracy

hyperlexian wrote:

Women drive me to there

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30 Oct 2010, 7:45 pm

Aspie1 wrote:

J-P wrote:

ummm, no prostitution is illegal in canada.

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30 Oct 2010, 7:52 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

Aspie1 wrote:

J-P wrote:

ummm, no prostitution is illegal in canada.

i know and anyway it,s not my cup of tea

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30 Oct 2010, 8:00 pm

I guess I'll never understand - someone hates women but wants to sleep with one. I'd be completely disgusted at the idea of sleeping with someone I hate

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30 Oct 2010, 8:01 pm

I think the reason you don't have a chance is because you are a jerk.

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30 Oct 2010, 8:03 pm

Sallamandrina wrote:

I guess I'll never understand - someone hates women but wants to sleep with one. I'd be completely disgusted at the idea of sleeping with someone I hate

I'm complicated but i will explain. Sometime i want sex with women but suddenly hate them for get privated. A privated man haved his limit and i translate it by an certain hate for give others chance but no me. i have same need!

hale_bopp wrote:

I think the reason you don't have a chance is because you are a jerk.

get privated and give me some news

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30 Oct 2010, 8:06 pm

J-P wrote:

What's your learning problem? Some of the world's greatest minds and creative geniuses have or had 'learning problems'.

What about my other points?

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30 Oct 2010, 8:12 pm

What does "Get Privated" mean?

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30 Oct 2010, 8:12 pm

Moog wrote:

J-P wrote:

What's your learn problem? Some of the world's greatest minds and creative geniuses have or had 'learning problems'.

What about my other points?

Moog wrote:

okay here we go

1:we need more fachism thinking. help can help
2:forgive? maybe but i will forgive when a girl will choose me
3:i have to finished my secondary school but i only have a 6 primary grade and 4 primary grade math. its it's take me 10 years or near fuc* off because i need to learn a job after and i lose precious experience
4:i know many jerk that damaged girl and she continue to date that type
5:i will talk to my specialist
6:i think fachism is the solution to many problem like democracy defaillance and immigration problem. Mussolini merited more than be killed
7:thanks you for the support

hale_bopp wrote:

What does "Get Privated" mean?

it's mean preclude me to have sex. sorry i talk french

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30 Oct 2010, 8:14 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

What does "Get Privated" mean?

i think he means to suffer privation (be rejected). french --> english translation

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