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hale_bopp
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30 Aug 2010, 10:49 pm

I just wanted to apologise to those i've pissed off.

Not making any excuses, because there is none. I was projecting my own unhappiness on others.

Wish you all the best :)



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30 Aug 2010, 10:58 pm

Are you sure the apology was necessary? From the many obnoxious personalities I've encountered on this forum in the short time I've been here, maybe it's not so much you as it is them... :?



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30 Aug 2010, 11:32 pm

yeah, i don't think that's necessary. for what it's worth.


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30 Aug 2010, 11:35 pm

You didn't piss me off... we all have our bad days. Some (like me) have more bad days than others (like you)...



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30 Aug 2010, 11:49 pm

I accept your apology.


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31 Aug 2010, 1:54 am

I am glad you're feeling better Fiona :)

Also glad you're not making excuses, you're motto should be "No excuses"



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31 Aug 2010, 8:31 am

I didn't feel pissed off because of any of your posts, though I was a bit disappointed that you didn't answer the questions I raised in reply to them.

I do hope that your unhappiness has faded away.



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31 Aug 2010, 11:59 am

primaloath wrote:
I didn't feel pissed off because of any of your posts, though I was a bit disappointed that you didn't answer the questions I raised in reply to them.

I do hope that your unhappiness has faded away.


I'm not sure what you're talking about...



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31 Aug 2010, 1:07 pm

Too late.

At least in my case.



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31 Aug 2010, 4:58 pm

Not sure who it was you pissed off...

But I wish you the best too Fiona. :)


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01 Sep 2010, 2:58 am

Zara wrote:
Not sure who it was you pissed off...

But I wish you the best too Fiona. :)


I could probably be more tactful in my approach at times. No-one in particular, but i'm sure there are people out there.



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01 Sep 2010, 3:24 am

Sell out :cry:



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01 Sep 2010, 3:52 am

hale_bopp wrote:
Zara wrote:
Not sure who it was you pissed off...

But I wish you the best too Fiona. :)


I could probably be more tactful in my approach at times. No-one in particular, but i'm sure there are people out there.

I appreciate your directness and no nonsense approach to giving advice, so no need to apologize on my account



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01 Sep 2010, 8:07 am

well it is none of my business why you are apologizing. maybe you have done something wrong that i never saw, but i will say that i will always read your posts if i see them, and i like to digest what you have to say.
you seem very straight forward and i believe that what you say is never said from a pretentious or posturing motivation.

i believe you have AS and i do not believe many people have AS who claim to have AS here.
even though you are miles above me in your ability to see social reality, i still see that you say your thoughts in a way that i always fully understand.

just keep being you or this forum for me will be less valuable.

i do not want a reply because i will not know what to say to it. i just make statements and i do not like to reciprocate.

that is all i have to say.



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01 Sep 2010, 9:18 am

i don't see it at all! hale_bopp, you have definitely seemed unhappy lately {{{{{awkward aspie hug}}}}}, but i would not say that you were actually being offensive. i think that some of the more misogynistic comments on WP can be hard to handle (i've been totally guilty of getting hot under the collar), and you have not been shy in expressing your feelings about these kind of comments. i don't feel like you necessarily crossed a line, but i'm not going to be weird and creep out your posts to find anything contentious either, so maybe i missed something.

i value what you have to say, so i really hope you continue to be outspoken and forthright.


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01 Sep 2010, 9:20 am

You don't make me angry. I love the honesty in your posts. You say things that some of us don't have the balls to, which adds more to the discussion. Topics would go nowhere if we were all agreeing with each other all the time. Anyway, I hope you're feeling better. :)