Wanting to know something, or choosing to ignore it.

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In love. You have to think - this person is my other half. (atleast sometimes)

But in life, sometimes - your just not going to be able to be perfect to eachother.

So I have a question.

In my personal belief (it may have become a person belief after experiencing it so many times). Is it smarter to face reality, ask the truth, search the emails - and find the truth about your partner. Or kindly accept them at face value and ignore obvious/less than obvious signs, not snoop at all.. and be a perfect boyfriend?

I'm not trying to say is it better to snoop and be jealous. I'm saying - when faced with uncertainty, and the likely choice is to dwell on things you'd rather not know. Is it easier not to .. to just forget you know, is there ever really a time when you should search and snoop. I mean, even if you don't find what you where looking for - your still going to find a whole bunch of things you weren't looking for - which would cause more problems than you had in the first place.

Hmmm, if that makes any sense.

So basically is ignoring reality and things that may bother you easier than confronting them? Do you really need to know your partners inner most thoughts, are those important? Is your sanity more important than your jealousy or insecurity? ...