Qualities you DON'T want in a guy/girl?

Post Reply New Topic

For those NOT in a relationship what type of qualities do you not want? (DO NOT CALL ME YOUR MAN!) I am to be called only as "your boyfriend" or my name!

My personal list:
-Immaturity

-Big ego

-Excessive vanity

-Smokes and drinks alcohol

-Is a hipster

-Is a clean freak, MUST be a germ freak instead


What say you?

What's wrong with enjoying a few pints in the evening?

Sounds a bit temperance lobby to me.

- Uptight about one's sexuality (sex jokes, her guy checking out another woman with no intention of hitting on her, uptight about sex in general and wanting it to be "special.")

- Jersey shore look (platinum blonde, fake tan, fake boobs, etc.)

- Smokes pot, does recreational drugs, or drinks more than just occasionally/socially.

Last edited by foreveryoung on 02 Jul 2010, 7:00 pm, edited 1 time in total.

-enormous feet.

-beard

-pointy lungs.

-secretly is an android

-lives in hades half the year

-has no physical body

Maybe a girl could get away with one of these if she was totally banging in other ways.

- Turn offs are: No sense of humor; lack of respect; smoking; racist; bad kisser; no car/job; no patience!

What is a hipster anyway?

Would almost sell my soul or sense of humor for a guy who:
- Is a skilled masseuse
- Is willing to talk dirty at right time
- Can be trained not to talk to me until AFTER my morning coffee
- Doesn't mind being my "executive" half!

- poor self esteem

- incredibly self absorbed

- laughs at me all the time or makes fun of me (or lets his friends/family pick on me) with no regard of my feelings

- someone who whines all the time

- I too would prefer a germ freak over a clean freak (a germ freak would keep me from getting a cold, a clean freak is just a b----)

- someone who has an intelligence-based ego (cause it usually results in the person demeaning others as stupid for little to no reason)

- someone who respects my political/religious views (or lack thereof)

- someone who would rather do the same old things everyday or will easily bore me

- someone who's intolerant of my personal and social flaws (you're wasting your time if you dont like being around socially inept people)

She:

-Does drugs
-Smokes
-Is immature/shallow
-Is unintelligent (this may sound mean, but I'm looking for someone I can have deep conversations with)
-Is heartless (I'm looking for a girl with a kind heart and nice personality)

Qualities I do NOT want

lying
cheating
doing illegal drugs
smoking
drinking
being physically abusive
unwillingness to be my best friend


There's lots more but that's all the major stuff I can think of

Last edited by nick007 on 02 Jul 2010, 8:53 pm, edited 1 time in total.

neediness

clinginess
sexual contact (at least cut the overt contact)
rudeness
carelessness
nastiness
bad hygiene (needs to bathe & be clean)
violent
narrow minded
intolerant
promiscuity
STD's
moves into & out of relationships fast
overly touchy-feely
irresponsible (I will admit, I'm not the best here but I put my school/work obligations 1st... I'm bad wit the household chores )
one who ditches/ignores obligations
reminds me too much of my parents/sibling (AWKWARD ALERT)
bad listener
unwilling to negotiate
takes advantage of partner's weaknesses/uses them
participates in illegal activities
goes to extremes w/ drinking, etc. (lacks the concept of moderation)

p.s. I'm okay wit alcohol but in moderation & w/o driving & don't like drugs b/c their dangerous... plus smoke makes me sick

Last edited by Peko on 03 Jul 2010, 9:07 am, edited 2 times in total.

I will not date a guy who:

- Will not respect my wishes to wait till marriage to have sex
- Is not Catholic, or does not at least belong to a branch of Christianity that shows respect towards Catholicism
- Wants to have children or already has children from previous relationships
- Drinks a lot or does illegal/recreational drugs
- Has anger management issues
- Can't work or live independently

Why no kids?

I'll play along.

1. No drinking or smoking.
2. I'd like to know how much credit card debt she is carrying. It tells me a lot about her responsibility (or lack thereof)
3. Surprisingly goodhearted.
4. No kids from a previous relationship. Too much drama and baggage. I don't mind having kids myself though.

"Jersey Shore" look (as quoted from above)
Doesn't like animals (just would not work out)
Racism/sexism/classism etc.
General skeeziness towards women makes me throw up in my mouth alilbit
Type-A-iness and uptightness is a pretty big turn off for me, also. Normally.
Boring/"normal"/"typical"

Because kids are f*****g annoying and some people cannot stand being in the same city block with them.


Anyway, my take:

If a girl:
- smokes
- does drugs
- has children or desperately wants them
- has a ex that is still part of her life
- is a political extremist/Racist
- is too religious
- sleeps around with others
- likes Anime
- has no empathy/hate poor people
- is shallow/has to follow trends
- cant think for herself

...then she has no chance with me.


EDIT: THIS IS MY OPINION AND I DO NOT GIVE A FLYING s**t ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. I HATE KIDS AND I ALWAYS WILL. THEY ARE ANNOYING AS HELL AND I NOT RESPONSIBLE IN ANYWAY TO TAKE CARE FOR ANYONES KIDS. PERIOD.

Last edited by Ichinin on 03 Jul 2010, 6:09 am, edited 1 time in total.

Selfish
inconsiderate
not loving
lives with parents
unsuccessful/jobless
arrogant
has kids
ignorant about the world and universe
Athiest
uninteresting

fat
aids