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trojan51
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02 Sep 2010, 2:41 am

I am sure that i could find a girlfriend, I just feel that i may have been looking in the wrong places all along. I am decent looking, decent body and all. I have seen guys with far worse looks and body get girlfriends so I know I can find one. But where do i look for one?

I have friends that are girls but they seemed to have friend zoned me and I am signed up for community college so i wont be in dorms.



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02 Sep 2010, 7:08 am

Join stuff on campus & see if you make a connection with any female members. Go for co-ed stuff so you don't give off an unwanted stereotype that will most likely be inaccurate such as looking like a creeper, or possibly homosexual if you come off as very sweet or something. I don't know what you look like or your mannerisms so I have no idea if the stereotypes I mentioned could be an issue :?. Also, becoming friends with a girl first is not a bad idea b/c it will give you something in common. I would hope that friendship would make any kind of romantic connection deeper and (though I have no experience with this) give you some comfort if you do break up so you don't necessarily have to block the ex from your life.


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02 Sep 2010, 11:52 am

Peko wrote:
Join stuff on campus & see if you make a connection with any female members. Go for co-ed stuff so you don't give off an unwanted stereotype that will most likely be inaccurate such as looking like a creeper, or possibly homosexual if you come off as very sweet or something. I don't know what you look like or your mannerisms so I have no idea if the stereotypes I mentioned could be an issue :?. Also, becoming friends with a girl first is not a bad idea b/c it will give you
something in common. I would hope that friendship would make any kind of romantic connection deeper and (though I have no experience with this) give you some comfort if you do break up so you don't necessarily have to block the ex from your life.


lol @ homosexuals all being 'sweet'!

I don't think the friend route is a good one for people with social issues - I struggle to maintain each individually, switching a friend to lover would just be too difficult for me to instigate!



trojan51
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03 Sep 2010, 3:04 am

No idea why you were wondering what I look like, but im 6'2", weigh about 160 or so, blond hair blue eyes, and a goatee.