What you love about the opposite sex.

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This is not intended to be hetero-exclusive. It's simply intended to balance out the negativism in the other threads.

So tell me:

What do you love about the opposite sex?

Well, I think of my SO, when I consider this question. I like the way his body is so masculine, compared to my feminine one. I like the hair on his body. I like his deep, mellow voice. I like the way his eyes twinkle when he laughs.

Boobs.

GSOH. <3
tattoos.
nice smile.
nice hair.
understanding.
confidence, confidence, confidence.

I like the way men smell. Not Axe or Old Spice or any of that other scented nonsense. Just the actual way men smell.

Tenderness,
softness,
curves,
closeness,
beauty (of body, mind, and spirit),
color,
individuality,
fierceness,
smiles,
whispering,
hugging,
all the differences.

I like the way women are more sensitive, more caring & more empathic. Women are not violent bullies like guys can be. Women are sweeter & nicer

Does it have to be the opposite sex?

That's very charming, bicentennialman. I wish I could imagine someone perceiving me that way.

I like men's voices, listening to men talk and laugh, and singing too.

I like the way that the guys I know are not scared to knock holes in walls or have a go at DIY (something I could do if pushed, but am nervous about)

This is way too general a question for me to give an interesting answer.

Some of these things, i've only done that a few times but here goes:

- Spooning. As an Atheist, the only heaven i know is laying close to a girl
- Holding hands when out walking and looking at her hanging on to my hand as if "he is MINE!". Even if it is only with a female friend who had been single for 2 years and use you as a non-sexual boyfriend substitute.
- Touching each other under relaxed circumstances.
- Cuddling for hours on a Sunday morning watching movies and ordering food.
- The softness of a girls voice when she is tired.
- The way some girls giggles when you tell them a joke.
- The way they walk. I just love watching girls walk and see their legs and cheeks move... hypnotising!
- Girls in Goth/Alternative outfits. Nuff said.
- When a cute younger girl, that don't know how old i am, smiles at me and starts twirling her hair.

Now i have to stop listing these things or i get depressed and start thinking about how lonely i am and how depressing life is without having someone to love.

Necks. And not in a vampiric sense.

Small fingers are good for some professions. Childbirth can also provide a good contribution to the world in some cases, though that depends on both parents' genetic endowment.

As for cognitive abilities... I'm not really sure. Women do supposedly have better short-term memory, and better memory for faces in general, though I can't quite see how this can benefit the world at large.

Hands. Strong masculine hands--the kind with callouses because he works hard. Being touched tenderly and gently by those big strong hands....The thought of it makes me go a little weak in the knees.