Contradictions
The_Face_of_Boo
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it was a ages ago .....so it's ok to share it now:
...because ,in fact, I am seeking for a relationship. I saw your profile and I can tell that me and you don't have a lot in common :
-You're religious, I am not at all
-You're emotional, I am not
-Your choice of books is too different than mine.
-We both love seafood (kif jara? )
I noticed in your skinny : Looking For New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
I said to myself: Well ,why not? Since we're not compatible as couple then we can at least be some sort of penpals or friends.
But what puzzles me is what you wrote there:
"You should message me if
u r smart funny educated with a strong personality and goodlooking "
Why New friends , activity partners and Long-distance penpals should have a strong personality and should be good-looking??? According to your skinny profile you're only seeking for those and not for a boyfriend.
I am not sure if I am even 'suitable' to message you:
Do I have a strong personality? I dunno, I am bold but I am not very socially straightforward , "strong personality" is a vague term.
Am I good-looking? I have no idea, you judge , but I am certainly self-aware that I don't look like a celeb.
So again, since you're not seeking for a LT/Short term relationship, then why the people who should message you should have a strong personality and should be "good-looking"??
her reply was : y not
me: :facepalm:
I see a lot of such contradictions on dating sites....why those contradiction? lol
...because ,in fact, I am seeking for a relationship. I saw your profile and I can tell that me and you don't have a lot in common :
-You're religious, I am not at all
-You're emotional, I am not
-Your choice of books is too different than mine.
-We both love seafood (kif jara? )
I noticed in your skinny : Looking For New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
I said to myself: Well ,why not? Since we're not compatible as couple then we can at least be some sort of penpals or friends.
But what puzzles me is what you wrote there:
"You should message me if
u r smart funny educated with a strong personality and goodlooking "
Why New friends , activity partners and Long-distance penpals should have a strong personality and should be good-looking??? According to your skinny profile you're only seeking for those and not for a boyfriend.
I am not sure if I am even 'suitable' to message you:
Do I have a strong personality? I dunno, I am bold but I am not very socially straightforward , "strong personality" is a vague term.
Am I good-looking? I have no idea, you judge , but I am certainly self-aware that I don't look like a celeb.
So again, since you're not seeking for a LT/Short term relationship, then why the people who should message you should have a strong personality and should be "good-looking"??
her reply was : y not
me: :facepalm:
I see a lot of such contradictions on dating sites....why those contradiction? lol
I'm sure that was just a flirty, meaningless bit of fluff. Most people - myself included - do not make sense all the time.
...because ,in fact, I am seeking for a relationship. I saw your profile and I can tell that me and you don't have a lot in common :
-You're religious, I am not at all
-You're emotional, I am not
-Your choice of books is too different than mine.
-We both love seafood (kif jara? )
I noticed in your skinny : Looking For New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
I said to myself: Well ,why not? Since we're not compatible as couple then we can at least be some sort of penpals or friends.
But what puzzles me is what you wrote there:
"You should message me if
u r smart funny educated with a strong personality and goodlooking "
Why New friends , activity partners and Long-distance penpals should have a strong personality and should be good-looking??? According to your skinny profile you're only seeking for those and not for a boyfriend.
I am not sure if I am even 'suitable' to message you:
Do I have a strong personality? I dunno, I am bold but I am not very socially straightforward , "strong personality" is a vague term.
Am I good-looking? I have no idea, you judge , but I am certainly self-aware that I don't look like a celeb.
So again, since you're not seeking for a LT/Short term relationship, then why the people who should message you should have a strong personality and should be "good-looking"??
her reply was : y not
me: :facepalm:
I see a lot of such contradictions on dating sites....why those contradiction? lol
honestly though, she sounds like a bit of a flake, perhaps. i doubt that future conversations would have been at all satisfactory for you.
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The_Face_of_Boo
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Man looking for gardener: must have calloused hands, chiseled jaw, broad shoulders, oak-worn skin, strong legs and back... yeah, its a little conspicuous.
I have a feeling that she's ultimately networking to meet someone, that she wants attractive friends because she's hoping it'll lead her to more attractive people and that - hopefully - will ultimately lead her to what she wants. At the end of I'm getting the impression that she just didn't want to debate or discuss it, hence the trite response.