I will miss her

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I have made a friend who has made a great impression on me. I feel it deep in my heart and it will never leave me; She graduated and will be going onto college, though I was going to graduate this year but I was ill with apendecitis. I think about her everyday, it won't leave me, I don't even know if she is interested or not. She is the sweetest person I ever met, and I don't know if she will accept my love for her. We have a lot in common, and I feel lost that I may ever have her. What must I do? What must I say? What must I feel?

I need help, and the same feeling will never leave me, It is almost like a fire burning deep in my heart!

Please help!

Does she have any idea you feel this way?

My best friend in the world when I was in high school had no idea the impact he had on me untill much later in life. We did try the dating the thing but it just did not work out. I think it's a good thing to call her and let her know that things aren't going to be the same around school without her around, and that you'd like to keep in touch. Don't have to let her know the romantic feelings you have for her untill you are comfortable enough to do so. But who knows, she might feel the same way about you. As for my friend from high school, he and I were joined at the hip, where one was the other was usually close by, we were emotionally more connected as friends then as boyfriend and girlfriend, guess it was just never met to be.

If you've been friends with a girl for a long time, I seriously don't recommend trying to turn it into a relationship. In the worst case, you won't get the relationship and lose the friendship. I have a female friend (I'm male) that I've known for five years. We've had our ups and down, but were always there for each other. In fact, I wouldn't trade the friendship with her for anything. Instead of wishing you and that girl had a romantic relationship, try to see it from this perspective.

Long story short, relationships you've spent years building can fall apart in seconds. But friendships usually stay for years, if not for life, unless one or both people do something to destroy it.