Nonchalant way to tell her i have as?

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I've been talking to this girl on the phone for like two weeks now(for like 2-4 hrs every night). we met online, she's really nice and pretty... we have our first date tomorow and I really feel the need to tell her about my aspergers. I guess i probably need to tell her during dinner so I know whether to tell the server to split the bill or not lol. anyways... anyone have any advice of a nonchalant way to tell her? she seems to like me alot and truthfully, romantic or not she is one of very few supportive people in life at the moment.

Asperger's Syndrome sounds like it should come after you've reached a comfort level whether that means you're friends or bf/gf.

I feel this way because some people might see this as trying to gain attention and/or being self-defensive. Now, if you both are comfortable together, then you can tell her after dinner about how you grew up with Asperger's or something. She'll totally understand and even try to research/ask you about it. If it's just the first date and she doesn't enjoy your personality, then she isn't going to like you, Asperger's or no Asperger's.