this girl ignores me!

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This girl is so positive to everyone else it's great, but I can say something to her and she'll ignore me! What do i do?

Probably nothing. It would be best to look for someone else.

Ignore her. If she's ignoring you on purpose, yet likes the attention, she'll probably try to interact with you if you ignore her. If she still ignores you she isn't interested so you shouldn't waste your time.

Another possibility is that she likes you but is too shy to respond.

That's been my experience at almost every place I have ever worked. Some chick is totally cool with everybody but either fears/dislikes me.

Yeah, just go about your business and don't speak at her, or even really look her way.

Find another chick.

Pretty much what Happy Music said. It could be either of those things.

Sometimes if i like someone I am like that because i'm so scared of what they would think if I try and interact.
Sometimes I don't hang out with or interact with someone because they're annoying or creepy.

Best just ignore her back to stay on the safe side.

Let it go man, just let it go. She doesnt wanna be friends, dont ask about her to anyone else, dont talk about her, look at her, ANYTHING. She will use any of that against you if she doesnt like you. And she might not even hate you or anything, but she just isnt interested in what you have to say.

Ive literally almost got fired for trying to be friends with and THEN moving towards a relationship with a girl at work. She doesnt even wanna be pleasant so its not worth the effort to try and do it yourself. But Like even if you befriend her, or someone you might like, they might just be "being nice". Peoples parents told them never to say something that wasnt nice, so when someone is interested in them, they act friendly instead of saying, I dont want to be friends with you. Or even better, saying what you did wrong to encourage such behavior by them.... Why she would ignore you....

But to reply to a reply,

Im tired of hearing women say guys are creepy or annoying. What they define as creepy is USUALLY a guy who just never had anyone help him out, might not look "socially fit". But just so you know, Creepy is more like sitting in a corner whistling to yourself while wittling a stick into a wooden shank....

And annoying is just inaccurate. You wanna call someone out for their actions, or words, then fine, point out they say or do things that lack maturity or they're just things YOU(YOUR PROBLEM) dont find acceptable. But annoying to women these days is just a guy they dont find attractive or "suitable", so they dont want to exchange in pleasantries, or be friends/more with them. Simple as that. And if said "creep" continues to "annoy" they'll call the bouncer, or the cops, or just scream in public, something stupid like that...

I'm not easily creeped out you know and being creepy is pretty easy to avoid. When I worked at an eating place years ago, there was this guy who washed the pots who would just blatently stare at the waitresses in the dinner room, scratch his arse, not wear gloves while doing something (Un-hygenic) and all creepy is is when you make someone else feel uncomfortable. Its pretty easy not to stare at people for a good 5 minutes while they eat, then ask out half the people there in a period of a couple of weeks. People think I'm creepy too, and I avoid such people and get over it.



Annoying is annoying. Male or female. I don't associate with annoying people unless I have to of either Gender. Other people think I'm annoying, they stay away, end of story.

Remain pleasant to her ... I wouldn't be reciprocate rudeness with rudeness though. Makes you just as bad as her. Just be pleasant and polite if in direct contact ... don't go out of your way .. and then find a more decent person. Simple rule to follow - take the high road but don't clutter it with rocks.

Yeah, except the truth is, it isn't really. The stupidest things can be thought of as creepy. Things that aren't even creepy are thought of as creepy.



Why don't you just avoid being creepy? I mean, it's so easy.

I don't mean be rude, I mean just don't interact at all. Just let it go. It will become clear if she wants his attention or not.

Once I find out what behaviour of mine creeps people out, yes, I make a conscious effort to stop it. But I still don't bother with those people.

If you do something and get a negative reaction, like people give you weird looks, you self reflect and think "What did I just do to get those looks", evaluate the situation, try and improv your behaviour and let go of it and all people involved.

I'm inclined to think she either likes you romantically, or she worries you like her romantically, or you scare her, or she is a b!tch.