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29 Oct 2010, 1:47 pm

When those of you on here speak of men in terms of dating (wanting to date, or thinking AS females struggle more in relationships), what type of men are you envisioning?

Post a photo of a man who resembles the image you have in your mind.



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29 Oct 2010, 1:50 pm

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This. Always this...or this...

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29 Oct 2010, 2:05 pm

I usually imagine something along the lines of

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But its never who I end up dating or falling for. One guy was sort of like that, but now I looked back I don't see how I found him attractive.



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29 Oct 2010, 2:56 pm

hachahcha

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29 Oct 2010, 2:58 pm

i will have all the men in the previous pictures in this thread.
Good choices ladies. :D



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29 Oct 2010, 3:34 pm

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The perfect man...



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29 Oct 2010, 3:35 pm

Interesting how quick the ladies are to post images, compared to the male response in the other thread.


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29 Oct 2010, 3:36 pm

We were asked to post an image. Similar to what we think in our head. It doesn't nessicarily relate to a specific person. That wasn't what was asked.



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29 Oct 2010, 3:49 pm

I guess I interpreted the question differently. It's not a very clear question.


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29 Oct 2010, 4:11 pm

Moog wrote:
I guess I interpreted the question differently. It's not a very clear question.


Basically, if you imagine yourself going on a date with a girl, what does the imaginary girl look like in your thoughts?



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29 Oct 2010, 4:24 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Moog wrote:
I guess I interpreted the question differently. It's not a very clear question.


Basically, if you imagine yourself going on a date with a girl, what does the imaginary girl look like in your thoughts?


See, I'm really confused. It's a non sequitur as far as I am concerned. I can think of specific women I'd like to date, and I can think of qualities of a woman that appeal to me, but posting a picture of Eva Longoria or some other kind of celebrity makes no sense to me at all.

I think the difference might have something to do with that fact that male celebrities and TV stars and the like actually are portrayed through media as having a semblance of personality, whereas female celebrities and TV stars are portrayed as being simply pretty and nice women, and their character seems to be suppressed or not present. Unless they are being depicted as super b*****s, I suppose.

I dunno though. :shrug: I might just not get what's going on here.


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29 Oct 2010, 5:07 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Moog wrote:
I guess I interpreted the question differently. It's not a very clear question.


Basically, if you imagine yourself going on a date with a girl, what does the imaginary girl look like in your thoughts?


She would look like someone who knows me and not someone who doesn't know about my existence (ie. celeb).



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29 Oct 2010, 5:09 pm

This is the kind of man I like to date. In fact I'm dating him right now!
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29 Oct 2010, 5:20 pm

Moog wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Moog wrote:
I guess I interpreted the question differently. It's not a very clear question.


Basically, if you imagine yourself going on a date with a girl, what does the imaginary girl look like in your thoughts?


See, I'm really confused. It's a non sequitur as far as I am concerned. I can think of specific women I'd like to date, and I can think of qualities of a woman that appeal to me, but posting a picture of Eva Longoria or some other kind of celebrity makes no sense to me at all.

I think the difference might have something to do with that fact that male celebrities and TV stars and the like actually are portrayed through media as having a semblance of personality, whereas female celebrities and TV stars are portrayed as being simply pretty and nice women, and their character seems to be suppressed or not present. Unless they are being depicted as super b*****s, I suppose.

I dunno though. :shrug: I might just not get what's going on here.


Well , I have an another theory: Probably the inability of many male members of attracting females have forced them to lower their standards to the extent of not caring much about looks. This might even happens unconsciously , like a natural call of nature, some strategy of survival (of the species) , other males are aware of it and decreases it smartly.

Most females here don't have this problem (since most of them have bfs anyways and most of those who are single are in fact single by choice) and so they don't need to take such measures and stick to their high standards (and the celebs' pics are the visual manifestations of their physical preferences ...their standards regarding looks.) , except for the very few like Shebakoby who , like many guys here, didn't have any relationship in her life.



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29 Oct 2010, 5:30 pm

Interesting take Boo, maybe there's some validity in it.

I am still attracted to women with looks, but I also appreciate other qualities too. I can't say that I lowered my standards, it's more like I have a different metric now.


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29 Oct 2010, 5:45 pm

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