Looking for the female me

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The female version of me would be a religious girl who likes angels aged 21-28 and lives in North Carolina. Because believe me, that's what I'm like. I'm religious, hooked on angels, and live in Hendersonville NC and am almost 21"

I'm: Shy, curious, artistic, right brained, IQ is 119, medium-short, little fat on me some muscle, medium built, Short brown hair (When me and you meet, you can choose how long I wear it and what color and you can tell me what to do with facial hair) Beautiful blue eyes

The female version of me I'm looking for: Lives in NC (Preferably in hendersonville), Christian who has a mild to extreme obsession with angels. Asperger's syndrome, looks don't really matter, but Maybe hair down to the shoulders or lower (Make up makes all girls look 5 times sexier, but it's not required.)

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Also long hair can also make women look frumpy.. if you like that sort of thing.

Frumpy? Pfffff. I don't see how. Long hair's awesome. Some women look better with short hair, but too few people grow their hair beyond the shoulders....

Personally, I wouldn't want a female version of me. I know she'd drive me crazy, heheh. But I can understand wanting to find someone with the same obsessions as you. Good luck, man.

That's the biased kind of attitude that scares girls into not wanting to cut their hair. You may be only thinking of supermodels, but some normal people look terribly boring with long hair.

Too few? I'd say too many. Long hair is old fashioned. I think you should take a time warp back to the dark ages.

Acutally I would like to find one that would be into the same things I am into but I really don't want one that is a female clone to me. I also wouldn't want to be like a slave obeying my own wishs. I want a free spirited lady. Who would help support me. Long hair would be nice but it really doesn't have to be. What makes up a good match is in a woman's mind. What makes her her. That's what you would want. You need. The lesser the arguements the best the relationship. I know this because I've heard of many relationships ending early because of over one disagreement. Also find one that won't misunderstand you in everything you say. You must have one that can easily understand you. Misunderstandings also creates breakups. This is what you need to find in a girl.

That's a good healthy outlook tiger. I word of caution on the "liking the same things" ideal -- This can be nice, but if you think you won't fight over it you are absolutely unaware. This can result in some of the most epic fights. You would think not, but reality is very different when it comes to everyone having their own opinion.

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I disagree. I think he's just expressing what he likes. Everybody likes something different in their ideal mate. I like short hair myself. I'm just attracted to that. But some guys really dig long hair. Some prefer curly hair, some strait. I'm not fond of makeup, but Angelboy expressed that he loved it -- someone could have just as easily said to him "You should love her for her natural beauty." or to me "You shouldn't be down on a girl for wanting to help her appearance out." It's what they like, and it doesn't make a guy a caveman for liking it.

I'm sorry hale, I really am... but that's crap.

Everybody has preferences, even you. Even girls. Physically, mentally... sexually. I applaud anyone for knowing what they want just as much as I would cheer on the person who's going out with someone different from what their inclined toward.

You are completley right, but it just kinda had the feel about it he was telling people with short hair they're 5 times uglier, and generalising that people look 5 times better with long hair, and that can manipulate girls into thinking they've got to do it. I'm sorry, but that's crap.

I'm probably reading into things too much, so I'll end this here.

Oh no, it's cool. I'm not trying to start anything. What I wrote would have been better served without the "that's crap" line. Looking back, I think that gave it too much of an edge and I apologize for that. I can understand why you would get upset a first glance though.

One of my things is trying to get people to look at things in another light. I've just noticed a lot of needless fights start on here when someone only looks at something from a single perspective.

I once knew this girl with hair down past her knees. It looked really nice, but it was incredibly impractical. She was quite strong and a really good wrestler though, so maybe if she ever got into a fight she could use her hair as a weapon, which would be useful. As a whip perhaps, or something to strangle her opponent with. But I digress.

Woah, calm down, I wasn't generalizing. I specifically said that some girls look better with short hair, and some models with long hair ARE dull-looking. When I said "too few girls have long hair," I meant that too few have that medium-length hair, maybe shoulder length, that's not short enough to actually be short, but not long enough to have what makes long hair attractive to me. I never said that people were five times uglier with short hair (or medium-length for that matter), and that's not the way I feel, either. Hell, one of my only major crushes in the past few years had short short hair. Long hair's just something I find attractive, and on some people, short hair as well.

Plus, too few? How many women with ACTUAL long hair have you seen? Not too many, at least not where I live. Practically all of them here have medium legnth hair, which to me is just kinda "meh"-y. Nothing attractive or unattractive about it. Far from the most important trait, and it has no negative effect, but just kind of an uninteresting trait that way. Neither a good thing, nor a bad thing.

Veresae may have a biased attitude, but it seems you have a biased attitude about hair length as well!

May I remind you of your past comments about guys with long hair...

My replies crack myself up.

Yeah, sorry, I suppose you're allowed to say short hair is ugly.