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30 Oct 2010, 10:17 pm

It probably won't happen for a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong time for me... I don't know... maybe this is unhealthy, but I don't really care about independence... perhaps this is due to depression and stuff... I mean who knows the strength of what is in my head and mental build up, right?

It's possible that I have taken a turn that I never should have taken mentally.

I do feel awful, that's for sure. I have had a desperate yearning for something to happen in some way...

It's painful, and difficult... I just want to be an emotional paradox of a human being creating, creating, and creating...

But I need love, and I don't know when it will happen, when I will feel ready, or anything of this sort, and of course - when I'll forget my ex girlfriend whom I'm cursed to feel tormented about. :cry:


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30 Oct 2010, 11:10 pm

Im sorry for your hurt.. heartbreak isn't easy to deal with.
It takes time. I hope you will be ok.



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30 Oct 2010, 11:25 pm

*HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG*

I wish I could offer you more than that.

Hang in there. I hope the pain goes away soon.

Take care.


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31 Oct 2010, 5:57 am

i'm clean and fresh-smelling, so please accept a hug from me :)
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<HUG!>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>



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01 Nov 2010, 3:34 pm

Here's a hug from me too. I know how it feels to be in need of them. My partner died 15 months ago, and I think I'd kill to have one more hour in his arms - just hugging and talking. Hugs are just TOO important. Hope life works out for you soon.



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02 Nov 2010, 12:39 am

I'm a guy, so how about a football player hug? (That's where you shake hands and simultaneously slap each other on the back.)



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02 Nov 2010, 9:16 am

Here's a hug from me too. I know how it feels to be in need of them. My partner died 15 months ago, and I think I'd kill to have one more hour in his arms - just hugging and talking. Hugs are just TOO important. Hope life works out for you soon.