Is there someone you still miss years later?

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As the thread title says, is there someone you used to be with years ago who you still miss, still think about, still have some feelings for?

I wouldn't say that I still have feelings for anyone but I miss being with exes going as far back as 12 years ago.

I'm in love with my childhood friend. I have been for the past 8 years. However, we stopped being on speaking terms 6 years ago (it's a long story). But even though we can never be friends (let alone a couple) in real life, I have recurring dreams about her all the time. These dreams are always of a pleasant nature, and they help to quell the heartache of reality. I also daydream about her a lot too. I guess you could say she's sort of become an imaginary friend.

Yes. There is.

No further comment.

I've mentioned this already in lots of post
My ex girl-friend. It was a mostly online thing & that was 7 years ago. She was the only person I ever connected with & really cared about. We broke up for lots of rezones because we both had or issues & problems & we quit being friends & quit communicating shortly after we broke up. I miss her terribly. I've thought about trying to contact her but I know that's the last thing I should ever do because I could not live with the guilt of upsetting something in her life by coming back into it. I'd rather die a slow excruciatingly painful death & be tortured in hell for all eternity than risk causing her some kind or problems. I caused to many

Oh, yes. I try my best to stay on good terms or remain friends with guys I've dated, which can be a good thing on one hand, but also a bad thing on the other. It's not exactly conducive to 'moving on' or 'getting over' someone.

I still have a soft spot for all the ladies I felt I liked more than friends, even if they dislike me and/or they pissed me off.

I don't think you ever completely forget your first love.

My husband, who died. I'll miss him forever.

I don't miss her, she keeps popping up in my dreams. She must miss me

A friend from about 10 years ago. The first (and only, to date) human I ever felt truly connected to. Words fail me.

I thought my brain/heart/self was going to break from it for a while, but it looks like I'm going live. I understand now how there are some people you carry around inside you forever. (And the hurt of loss, too, unfortunately.)

No doubt. I don't forget anything that was important. Of course I miss my long gone pets too. When I do run into people I knew well years later, my mind will skip back to where we left off. I will have to remind myself that a bunch has happened to both of us in the mean time. I am not sure what that says about me.

Still thinking of them 18 years later. I guess I'm stuck with those feelings for the rest of my life.

At a point in my life, I had to choose between two women -- one wanted to marry me, one, we had barely gotten our relationship going. I chose the former, which was the right choice, but I bemoan the chance I could have had to get a certain fetish out of my system. This girl also meant so much to me too, but I had to break it off, and break off all contact. I have reached out to her in the years since (it's been about 13 years), but she's not interested in even being acquaintances. Sad to have to make hard choices like that.

That is such a lovely idea.

Not to me. The idea of Emily missing me makes me feel worse. If she misses me half as much as I miss her; she's having major problems. That line of thinking didn't work for John Wait

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