What is love?

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When I first met my wife there hadn't been anyone who wanted to be with me for over ten years. She move over from the USA nearly seven years ago now and we have been married almost as long. I never thought I would get married even if I met the right person but in this case I had to so she could stay in the country. I wasn't sure what I felt just that when she had to go back to America I was very upset and it screwed with my head lots. Now seven years on I still feel that I need her and when she has been away I get a little lost without her.

But I hate my head because if someone isnt in my face then ideally don't think s out them much. Like I was away for ten dats a month ago for work and I don't feel the loss I think I should while away. Cause I guess I cant put myself in her situation.

I can't think about hurting her and I would miss her alot if she was not here.

But I don't know what I should feel, day to day, it's just like she is there ok glad she is there. I tell her I love her a lot but I'm not really even sure what that means I guess. Just watched the movie Adam guess it bought out questions or ramblings
Thanks for reading

BABY DON'T HURT ME! DON'T HURT ME! NO MO!

yeah, the lyrics popped into my head too.

to the OP - have you considered talking to your wife about your feelings? that seems like a logical first step because only you two can really understand what the experience of your marriage is really like. maybe she has some doubts as well.