I actually WANT to be...

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... weak, inferior, submissive... I know many would think of this as a "turn off" or whatever, but really - this way of being strikes a chord in my soul.
I do want to be on the back foot in a relationship, and to place a woman up on a pedestal and devote my world to her.
I hope I can find a dominant woman some day.

You posted threads exactly like this quite a few times, but I hope you find who you're looking for.

Sam, have you looked at websites and forums devoted to this sort of thing? I'm sure there's someone out there who's looking for someone like you.

I am hoping she has Asperger's.

But you know - maybe I'm not well. Am I focussing too intensely on this stuff?

Maybe this rampage tonight is the result of terrible boredom and nothing to do.

One thing is for sure - I do like this stuff.

I'm sort of hoping to find someone like that, but in a long term relationship sense - someone who only has that as a small part of their personality.

Try going after tall and/or muscular girls. My quiet, sheepish public demeanor sometimes gets me what I think are looks of interest from female hockey players when I was at at one of my stepbrother's hockey games. That's just my few cents. I hope it helps.

So you want a dominant/submissive relationship basically?

It's not really too much of a weird thing to be into TBH. Most relationships by nature have someone who's dominant, you just want to expand that.

You know sometimes there are subs who go and stay with a dom/me for a short time and live as a slave. I've seen personal ads to that effect on D/s sites. I don't think your penchant for it is weird at all. To each his own.

Stellar: Thank you very much.
Moog: Aye the internet indeed has numerous possibilities.
NickKotarski: Thank you for the input.
Asp-Z: I am not sure entirely but perhaps. I would like that to be a factor in a relationship.
happymusic: Unfortunately I'm still living dependently in the house I grew up in with my parents, so I'm not free to explore anything really, but once I start to live independently, the sky is the limit (hopefully).