Does she like me?

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I know this is probably a common thread so sorry to have to answer another one but I was wondering if this girl like me in my statistics class. We ended up sitting next to each other and over the course of the semester we began talking more and more. I'm pretty shy but I let out a few wise cracks in the start and everyone laugh and she did especially so I kind of felt excited. I've never really had a girlfriend before, more like aquantinces that I got along with.

After we got a test back in which I scored a 96 on, she asked me how I did and I was humble about it and said "96" with a little grin. She then gave me a friendly punch on the arm and called me a nerd jokingly.

I talk to her almost every class now and sometimes when we are walking to our cars since its our last class. I like her a lot, she's very attractive, has beautiful eyes and a great personality...we often joke about our teacher's lame cracks in class.

Now the hard part is going forward...I feel ashamed to say that I never really asked a girl for her number, or to go out on a date, so how should I approach it and do you think she likes me?

Don't let her know you've never asked a girl out on a date or for a number. She WILL think less of you.

Take her out to Don PAblo's or some place cheap, talk about lots of happy things and good feelings, if you have a pet at your place (which you neatly cleaned up and spritzed with cologne prior to the date) use the pet as a pretext to go back to your place, then start with a good shoulder rub/massage, get her to lie down on the bed, work over the arms, tell her to control her breathing, act like your hearbeats are synching (girls love that kinda s**t!), kiss her softly (don't ram your tongue into her mouth!), massage your fingers into her back, you want her to have the feeling like she's on a rollercoaster, work your way to her abs as a pretext to get her shirt off,massage your fingers into her lower back, get her bra off, gently use your tongue on her chest, work your fingers down lower as a pretext to get her pants (just the jeans, not the panties just yet) off to begin massaging her legs, rub your fingers into her inner thighs (it creates this amazing "edge of a knife" sensation that "hurts so good" and then use that as a pretext to go down on her, then "lick the alphabet" (THe letter "T" is very popular)...

Need I say more?

Just look her in the eyes and say "What's your phone number?" Don't say "Can I have your phone number?" You don't need her permission. And look her in the eyes with a straight face full of confidence, like Clint Eastwood talking to a bad guy...but not with the scowl, lol.

She probably does like you. Girls don't talk to guys they don't like. Not saying she likes you enough for you to put the moves on her yet, but she is open to hanging out with you. So when you're walking out to your cars after class just say "hey, let's go get some coffee." Or lunch or bagel or whatever. To exchange phone numbers, just say "give me your cell phone so I can give you my number." Then you enter your number into her phone and call your phone, so now you have each others number.

It definitely sounds like she likes you, that's pretty much how I ended up with a girlfriend.

It sounds so similar to my story, its just unbelievable.

You can ask if you want to talk to her on the phone later on in the evening and start off casual of course.

How long have you met her for?

It's impossible to say whether or not she likes you as more than a friend from the information you have given us, and the only way to find out for sure may be to take a chance by making your feelings towards her known.

If you are interested in her as more than a friend, it sounds like your time to express this would be now, as you have "broken the ice" with her, and are not yet established in the horrid "friend zone".

Ask her out to a movie or an event.

You might worry about being turned down, but ask yourself, are you willing to risk being turned down if taking that risks gives you a chance at getting a girlfriend? If you don't risk it, can you stand existing in the friend zone while some other guy who wasn't afraid to take the chance and ask her out goes out with her? Or while she swoons over another guy to you?