They could be coming from a couple different directions, ie. genetic chemistry or, otherwise, some people who have less accentuated personalities I'd suppose perhaps might not find it as important. From an aspie stand point though, yes, that's a difficult one to relate to.
Musicprophets wrote:
yes \you have to have something in common. or it can just be a shallow relationship even after a few months together which some immensely love shallow sexual relationships. then you have to be compatible with goals, dreams, desires, financial stability, mental/emotional stability, social stability, religious and political compatibility and just be an all out catch in every way possible. no one will truly hang out or date someone else is there nothing in common. maybe when people date older and marry older in life, there might be less concern for this. but in the prime years, it is of utmost importance.
Some people have the hopes and dreams of getting out of high school, getting a job as a hair stylist, a secretary, a gas station attendant or perhaps a garbage man, and doing little more aside from that than marrying, buying a house, and having kids. When goals and aspirations are that minimal it could perhaps be much more versatile.
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