GUYS: Do 'kept' women turn you on?

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Now this is one, just for the boys, as I was wondering....

Do 'kept' women turn you on?

As it happens they do for me!! !! !

Also as it also happens my GF is (kind of) one abet one who does not work thanks to her ADHD.

(I know that there are many people with ADHD who do work but my GF doesn't cos she was very heavly sheltered as a child and given her 'disabled' status she can afford to live that way if it contiues to please her)

Anyway, in my case they urn me on becouse...

1. You don't have to worry about them having issues at work, for obivus reasons (namely they don't work!! !!)

2. They are (in most cases that I've seen) always very happy and upbeat, unless some sicko has a go at them on account of their 'kept' staus

3. They are VERY femanie and will (again in most cases I've seen) take more time in trying please you, as they know that you are their lifeline and provider. Even if they don't feel any fear that you may kick them out of your life or send them off to work, quite often they will do it cos they are greatful to you.

3. You know where they are at all times (ie at home or shopping/place of interst)

4. They are VERY laid back and you don't have to feel that you have to compate with them in anyway, as is (sometimes) the case with other kinds of women.

5. They are, needless to say, very fun to be with as leasure, her partner, family, friends and (posible) children are her life.

The only down side to this is that they can be very expenive but as we can afford to live this way (we're thinking of moving in together later on next year) I'm happy for her to do this.

That said however there is also the matter of those who disllke 'kept women/men' (for reasons of their own) but that can fixed by my simple rule of the thumb which is 'if someone b*****s at you, b***h at them back but even harder than they have done until they shut up/give in when they see that they aren't going to get there way' as after all what is it to them is me or my GF choose's not to work? I'm not taking money of them and nor is she, so really they should (if that kind of thing ever happens) just shut up and leave her alone.

Anyway, my GF has ADHD, and so is not just some bum who cheats the system (even though it's more or less impossibe I bet it's still happens)

If I were a girl (with AS or ADHD) I'd not bother working, due to the stress involed (and the sexium that can, even today occer sometimes) and the fact I'd know full well that as things stand at the moment (in the UK at least) I'd get money from the state, and if any possible (and I'd most likely have one) did not like this then I'd kick him in the balls!! ! (Ditto for all other men and a bitching for any women.)

Plus I'd find guy's that are 'providers' sexy and I'd hope that he felt that 'kept women' were sexy, I don't think I'd find a lazy man sexy at all!! !! !

The only reason why I like 'kept women' is due to the fact I'm a man, that likes laid back girls, as it would be silly for me to say that I need to work due to my self pride, as although I have no issue with those who do FEEL the need to work, to be perfectly honset if I was a son of a rich guy/girl I'd just use that money as my income (if my parents were OK with it.)

And also, even today girls (or rather the kind of girls I like) don't (for the most part) find layabouts sexy, inspite of the fact that many men do.

Feel free to comment if you like, but I what I really want to know about is what you think about this view plaese rather than wether or not one can afford that kind of lifesyle, as I'm fully aware that this option is not open to us all.

Goodbye Till Next Time

Last edited by boosterjones on 30 Nov 2010, 5:14 am, edited 1 time in total.

I don't want someone who justs sits at home eating all the food and contributes nothing
I'd get a cat if I wanted that
I wouldn't let anyone live with me who was jobless like that

I find your use of the phrase "kept woman" is idiosyncratic. Usually, a kept woman is a courtesan or mistress who has her expenses paid for by a male benefactor in exchange for an intimate (usually sexual) relationship, an arrangement which is not understood to be a long-term love relationship. What you are talking about seems to be just a case of "unemployed girlfriend."

Never.

If someone is already spoken for I never look at them in that way.

You sound a little possessive, OP.

Anyways, basic economics says it's best to keep revenue high and costs low, therefore, I'd prefer a girl who works. Well, not so much at the moment since I'm 16, but in the future I would.

Either way, though, it isn't too much of a big deal TBH. I care more about people, not their careers.

OP, after reading your posts, either your making this girlfriend up, or you're on here simply to brag and get a rile out of people to make yourself feel better, which isn't cool here.

I hate this attitude. Just because you're lonely and don't have a partner, doesn't mean others are, and it doesn't mean that people with partners can't post happily here. Don't click his threads if you're jealous.

And no, I'm not showing anything off, I'm single.

I'll admit that I've been attracted to a girl who has an aspiration for being a stay-at-home mom.

Id like to be a billionairess, with no formal employment.

If you've read his other threads, bragging about her being his sex slave, you'd see what I mean. I'm not jealous. It's the way the person talks about something, not the fact that they talk about something.

Links to said threads? I never saw those.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/posts143230-start150.html

Last post on the last page.

I think it's a pretty big exaggeration to call that "bragging about her being his sex slave."

how is it bragging when the thread is ABOUT positive things in a relationship?

Does he sound respectful of her?

If he simply said "I met a great girl...blah blah blah...and we even have a great sex life" and left it at that, that'd be a different story.

And I have no reason to be jealous. I met a 40 year old woman that's better looking than most 20 year old women and wants a fling and likes similar things as I do. But you won't see me posting about it the way he did if it happens. Not respectful to the woman, and just makes the guy look like he's boasting.

so what if he is, nowhere says its against the rules to boast to people