You can definitely find someone in college. But I think I remember you being in community college/commuting somewhere but living at home, which makes it a lot harder to meet people/make friends. I went to junior college last year and I always say it's like 13th grade
This year I went away to school, living in the dorm, all that stuff, and it's so much more community like. Much easier to meet people.
I agree that if you're just going to class during the day and going back home at night, it will be difficult to meet people. I won't say it's impossible, but I certainly didn't and would have a very hard time at it. If you're unable to move on campus/out of your family's home, I would consider joining some student clubs or extracurriculars.
*edit* the guy I'm currently seeing met me at college (and he's never had a gf before), but we he doesn't live on campus and isn't involved in anything...he had to meet me through a friend.
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