19 Dec 2010, 5:39 pm
Ok, I imagine this topic has probably been posted before, but what the heck.
So, basically, how should I know if a girl is interested in me? Especially if we do not talk much? (I do not talk to many girls).
Since I had a haircut (I used to have long hair) I have recieved comments that I am handsome (especially from old ladies 
) and I have noticed many girls tend to look at me until I look back at them. It would be good to know if this means anything. Also, there are probably other signs I am missing, which would be good to know.
Also, there is a girl I am interested in, and I would like to know if she is interested in me too (I put up a thread about this which is now deeper into the archives). And while I am at it, I suppose I should find out how I could show interest without coming across as creepy or being too obvious.
Can anybody help me with this?
19 Dec 2010, 5:55 pm
So, basically, how should I know if a girl is interested in me? Especially if we do not talk much? (I do not talk to many girls).
Since I had a haircut (I used to have long hair) I have recieved comments that I am handsome (especially from old ladies
) and I have noticed many girls tend to look at me until I look back at them. It would be good to know if this means anything. Also, there are probably other signs I am missing, which would be good to know.Also, there is a girl I am interested in, and I would like to know if she is interested in me too (I put up a thread about this which is now deeper into the archives). And while I am at it, I suppose I should find out how I could show interest without coming across as creepy or being too obvious.
Can anybody help me with this?
She will probably look at you a lot...when you're not looking. So really, the only sure fire way to know if a girl likes you is to ask her out.
19 Dec 2010, 6:04 pm
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19 Dec 2010, 7:53 pm
19 Dec 2010, 8:03 pm
I don't know. I would just warn you though, it is easy to fool yourself into thinking women aer attracted to you when actually you're just imagining the sings or misinterpreting them. I reckon this is common for aspie guys (I am guilty of it myself - you think a girl is cute, wishful thinking, start seeing signs that aren't really there etc etc)
I think the best way for a guy with AS to know if a girl likes him is to find out directly. Ask her. Unfortunately that is something most of us here are gonna be pretty scared of I'm guessing 
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19 Dec 2010, 8:10 pm
Agreed. Maybe I was unique when I was younger but I never knew if a guy liked me or not. He had to be very direct or I just didn't understand. i usually just thought guys were being friendly. i thought I had friends when I didn't.
19 Dec 2010, 8:13 pm
Me too. Turns out they were mostly just fake "friends" who didn't really wanna be around me in the first place. The joys of having Aspergers
No wonder most of us find relationships/dating so confusing when we have enough trouble just maintaining friendships lol
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