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18 Dec 2010, 7:40 pm

I'm 24 and a few months ago I finally got my first girlfriend. Which is a small miracle in itself. Anyway my problem is pretty much whenever or wherever she touches me I become aroused. Is this normal? Will it get better over time after I'm more experienced?



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18 Dec 2010, 7:57 pm

Kryder wrote:
I'm 24 and a few months ago I finally got my first girlfriend. Which is a small miracle in itself. Anyway my problem is pretty much whenever or wherever she touches me I become aroused. Is this normal? Will it get better over time after I'm more experienced?


You are probably more sensitive than most men but I wouldn't call it entirely abnormal. You are attracted to her....as you should be since she's your girlfriend.



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18 Dec 2010, 9:38 pm

that's hot... and adorable... all wrapped up in one package! i suppose it must be a problem to you, especially if it happens during inappropriate times or if it becomes difficult to hide. but it's cool that it happens because of her.

i think it will probably fade with time, but never completely.


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18 Dec 2010, 10:02 pm

You don't have it as bad as me. Sometimes, if I talk to a girl for 10-15 minutes, I will get aroused. And, I won't be thinking sexual thoughts. I will just feel a connection to her, and feel aroused. Don't know why that is? Perhaps, it is an attraction I feel for the person. Or, maybe she is getting aroused after a period of me talking and my body notices??? For me, that is embarrassing.


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18 Dec 2010, 10:28 pm

It's supposed to happen in that circumstance. It's not a problem at all.



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20 Dec 2010, 2:49 am

It's an anticipation thing, ever watch American Pie? Same scenario.

As you progress in your relationship, it'll subside, first girlfriend, you're talking 24 years of sexual tension you've built up.



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20 Dec 2010, 3:03 am

I wouldn't worry about it. It's quite common for many guys. One years ago said once "whenever a girl touches me i get a boner"



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20 Dec 2010, 10:03 am

I don't see how this a problem at all, you have a girl that touches you. Also she will probably like the fact that you get a boner when she touches you, you should tell her it will relieve the tension.



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20 Dec 2010, 10:51 am

Kryder wrote:
I'm 24 and a few months ago I finally got my first girlfriend. Which is a small miracle in itself. Anyway my problem is pretty much whenever or wherever she touches me I become aroused. Is this normal? Will it get better over time after I'm more experienced?


If you've just got your first girlfriend, then you aren't used to that kind of thing, so yes, your reaction is normal. As you get more used to it, you should find yourself becoming turned on less easily, though.

Unless, of course, it's like this...

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLnWf1sQkjY[/youtube]

...In which case, it's a problem :lol:



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20 Dec 2010, 6:46 pm

My boyfriend is like this, only thing is that I'm his 4th girlfriend. He says he never had that reaction with other girls before so I guess that makes me special. Happy for you dude. As others have said, this reaction is normal. I hope things continue to go well for you. ^.^



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20 Dec 2010, 7:38 pm

I've heard guys say that before, so I wouldn't worry about it. You'll get used to her.

Asp-Z wrote:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLnWf1sQkjY[/youtube]

...In which case, it's a problem :lol:


This is funny - it reminded me of an ex. :lol: :lol: :lol:



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20 Dec 2010, 7:47 pm

Ah so thats where that animated gif face came from :lol:



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21 Dec 2010, 6:14 am

Kryder wrote:
I'm 24 and a few months ago I finally got my first girlfriend. Which is a small miracle in itself. Anyway my problem is pretty much whenever or wherever she touches me I become aroused. Is this normal? Will it get better over time after I'm more experienced?


Yeah dude. You will get used to it. In fact after a while you will get bored with it and start looking around for a new girlfriend who excites you more.

Hey, that's life.



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21 Dec 2010, 6:19 am

Wombat wrote:
Kryder wrote:
I'm 24 and a few months ago I finally got my first girlfriend. Which is a small miracle in itself. Anyway my problem is pretty much whenever or wherever she touches me I become aroused. Is this normal? Will it get better over time after I'm more experienced?


Yeah dude. You will get used to it. In fact after a while you will get bored with it and start looking around for a new girlfriend who excites you more.

Hey, that's life.


Not true at all. 'Get bored with it?' Clearly you've never found someone who you truely loved for more than a quick bit of action.
:roll:



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21 Dec 2010, 6:21 am

emlion wrote:
Wombat wrote:
Kryder wrote:
I'm 24 and a few months ago I finally got my first girlfriend. Which is a small miracle in itself. Anyway my problem is pretty much whenever or wherever she touches me I become aroused. Is this normal? Will it get better over time after I'm more experienced?


Yeah dude. You will get used to it. In fact after a while you will get bored with it and start looking around for a new girlfriend who excites you more.

Hey, that's life.


Not true at all. 'Get bored with it?' Clearly you've never found someone who you truely loved for more than a quick bit of action.
:roll:


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21 Dec 2010, 9:12 am

Kryder wrote:
Will it get better over time after I'm more experienced?


...depends :oops:


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