my aspie bf took me back--and i want to be with him longer

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So my boyfriend, who's quite a tad bit more independent and mature than I am, given he's 22 and what else he's faced, had a very long convo together recently and he said he wants to try being with me again, probably because, more than the fact he misses me and such...well, the reason why is complicated for me to follow through with, but anyway. It seems whenever we are together we only kiss and cuddle and maybe later get physical, go to my room and fool around...all that. pretty much EVERY TIME i see him, at his apartment or my house with my mom. and it seems pretty awkward and unneccesary. yes I know what most of you are thinking...but regardless, what I am not afraid to do, although I don't know where to begin, is put more variety into our relationship. In a way that we discover more about us, share our intellectual viewpoints rather than our physical selves, all through, practically EVERY time, getting out of the house.
just as a random ending to my explanation, i want to try to keep my boyfriend for longer, even though we've been together for practically a year already. I just want to have a relationship I'll never forget, in a good way, that may just last longer than I think.
Anyone have examples of how they've made variety in their relationships, or if you just happen to be single, know how to date a guy with your head screwed on correctly? (no negativity or smart aleckness intended)
thanks all

I would suggest going to a Different place other than where one of you live. For example going to a bowling alley would prevent the two of you from getting overly physical and encourage conversation and activity. I had the same problem with an ex GF. All we did was "hang out" and watch t.v. so we ended up making out constantly.