How to get a aspie boy to like you?

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Okay,I like this boy with aspugers. He already knows that Iike him. How do I get him to like me and ask me out if hes really really shy?

Depending on his severity you might have to be rather direct. Ask him to ask you out? I don't know your ages but he might not be into dating yet or have any expierence to base or plan his course of actions on. Regardless your best bet is just be direct and as fourthcoming as possible.

Getting him to like you? In what way? If you mean love, you can't force that you know
But you could just plainly ask how he thinks about you.

You could suggest going out with eachother to him, no need to stay traditional.
If he is a bit shy, he probably needs encouragement to do it traditionally.

First things first, see if he likes you.

Cheerfully,
Wallourdes

1. You can't make anyone like you.

2. Never assume that someone you like is just shy.

Likely to get him to like you (or more) he will need to spend some time with you. Work on doing more things with him and likely the rest will just happen. Start with simple things like seeing a moving together, then eating together, and see how it goes from there.

If he is as 'shy' as I was he may already like you. Be a little forward but don't push too hard.
Good luck.

Well if he's shy i doupt he'll be asking you out anytime soon so you might have to do the asking out bit but y'know try it you never know

Aspie guys could have trouble knowing if someone is interested in them. If you like him then try asking him out first, rather than waiting for him to ask you. There's nothing wrong in doing that.

How about you asking him out?

Assuming you're teenagers by your use of the term "aspie boy" as opposed to "aspie man", my advice is that you either ask him directly or move on. He won't figure it out on his own without a pretty clear hint. If you can't bring yourself to do this, you could try letting it slip somewhat loudly that you like the guy and want to date him in front of one of his friends (assuming he has some). If you have a mutual friend you can enlist to observe his reaction when he hears this information you can figure out what you want to without being direct. I don't recommend the indirect approach, but I realize some NTs have issues with directly communicating their thoughts verbally. If you are going to try to use non-verbal or subtle verbal hinting, keep doing it for several weeks, as he may figure it out given enough time to think.