Any guys feel like they act creepy around girls they like?

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02 Jan 2011, 8:52 pm

Towards the end of High School I made friends with this awesome girl
But I didnt know I was Aspie yet
I just didnt get how to make girls like me
I would always IM her
I would go everywhere I could with her and I payed way too much attention
I stopped coming around during my no friends period
And was afraid to go say hi anymore as we were good friends
Because I felt alomost creepy and stalkerish

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02 Jan 2011, 10:00 pm

Yes, I had my share of moments.

I've learned a great deal of those times.

Better luck next time.

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02 Jan 2011, 10:14 pm

I'm creepy in general.

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02 Jan 2011, 11:12 pm

I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.

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02 Jan 2011, 11:35 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.

'Tis a good thing you say that here.

I understand that all too well. :\

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02 Jan 2011, 11:39 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.

I am still new to all this and I am taking in so much Aspergers knowledge
Yet I am very unfamiliar with the female side
I just assumed girls arent usually creepy
Based on my past experiences
Ive met 1 or 2 but usually more intimidating
I dont know if Ive met any Aspie girls
But I assume they would come off as cute at first

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03 Jan 2011, 12:01 am

countfred wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.

Aspie woman are beautiful.

Just look at the real life photo thread in the Getting To Know Eachother forum.

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03 Jan 2011, 12:41 am

I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.

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03 Jan 2011, 12:43 am

John_Browning wrote:

I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.

I know what you mean
Im actually married now

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03 Jan 2011, 12:48 am

countfred wrote:

John_Browning wrote:

I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.

I know what you mean
Im actually married now

You give me hope.

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03 Jan 2011, 1:10 am

Jonsi wrote:

countfred wrote:

John_Browning wrote:

I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.

I know what you mean
Im actually married now

You give me hope.

But living at my parents because I am unemployed and cant contribute at the moment
I dont suggest marriage if you havent learned how to take care of yourself
I should be on Jerry Springer
"My women kicked me out cause I gots the aspergers disease yall"

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03 Jan 2011, 1:13 am

Eh, I just want some one to experience life with and to give and get love. :\

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03 Jan 2011, 3:16 am

hale_bopp wrote:

I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.

Yeah I used to be like this, and the more I liked them the worse it was. Terrible paradox. I guess its because we become a bit nervous, not ideal for being conversational. But in reality loads of people do it, I suspect it's almost normal.

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03 Jan 2011, 3:32 am

countfred wrote:

I just assumed girls arent usually creepy

If it makes you feel better i've been called creepy by males and females a lot in my life.

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03 Jan 2011, 3:57 am

hale_bopp wrote:

countfred wrote:

I just assumed girls arent usually creepy

If it makes you feel better i've been called creepy by males and females a lot in my life.

I saw your pic in the post a pic page
I guess a book really cant be judged by the cover

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03 Jan 2011, 12:48 pm

countfred wrote:

Jonsi wrote:

countfred wrote:

John_Browning wrote:

I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.

I know what you mean
Im actually married now

You give me hope.

How were you able to find someone that loves you when you're living at your parents and are unemployed? Because I'd really like to know...

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