As far as women ive dated, its been wholly NT gals. Thing is, NT and aspie aside, there are some ways to initiate romance in your life.
Take these steps, risk a little bit, and eventually you gain back what you put into it
step 1, meet girl/guy you are intrested in. Make eye contact, smile. but dont stare. go back to what you were doing.
step 2, introdue yourself. try to be sarcastic and witty. Give yourself a reason to talk to them. as subtly as possible
step 3, make a 'friend' with them, but make sure you arent friend zoned. keep your distance, and attempt to one on one with them more often than meet them in a pack of friends.
step 4, ask them to hang out sometime. watch a film, coffee, something intresting you both enjoy.
step 5, act on your feelings. ask them out, and so on so forth.
this is what ive found works for me. please feel free to post anything i forgot or anything you want to change ectect.
12 Jan 2011, 5:55 am
