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What is your ideal partner
AS male looking for AS female 30%  30%  [ 7 ]
AS male looking for NT female 4%  4%  [ 1 ]
AS female looking for AS male 17%  17%  [ 4 ]
AS female looking for NT male 4%  4%  [ 1 ]
Other 43%  43%  [ 10 ]
Total votes : 23

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24 Aug 2015, 9:03 pm

I'm curious about this, I've been hearing a lot about how female aspie's don't seem to dig male aspies much. So in case you were curious, that's why I ran this poll. Sorry I didn't add options for gays and NT's the combinations could have taken a lot of poll options and I'm not as interested in those anyways....



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24 Aug 2015, 9:58 pm

For me, whether my partner is Aspie or not is of little importance. I base my preferences on how compatible the person is with me, physically, mentally, emotionally, belief-wise, etc. I believe I could be compatible with an Aspie or a NT, depending on the person, just as I could be incompatible with either type. It's more about the individual.



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24 Aug 2015, 11:10 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
For me, whether my partner is Aspie or not is of little importance. I base my preferences on how compatible the person is with me, physically, mentally, emotionally, belief-wise, etc. I believe I could be compatible with an Aspie or a NT, depending on the person, just as I could be incompatible with either type. It's more about the individual.

^ This.



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24 Aug 2015, 11:52 pm

As long as they're cool with the autism, and they have some traits I find admirable (loyalty, honesty and caring), then I'm good.

I don't care all that much about their opinions on things (beliefs), what they look like (hell, I don't look at people anyway), and whatnot.

O, and they don't mind gunz being around the place. Some women hate such (no idea why, but there you go).



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26 Aug 2015, 2:30 am

I never had any luck with NTs cuz they were never direct of straightforward enough with me. I dated two Aspies thou & am currently living with the 2nd & things are going pretty well.


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30 Aug 2015, 4:02 am

Gay. Could go for NT or mildly AS depending on their traits. I've been attracted to some aspies, but repulsed by others.


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