Why must it be so difficult?

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12 Jan 2011, 9:41 pm

I don't even have very high standards so I think I would have found someone I could really relate to by now.....I mean. Its not like I'm looking for someone who's totally fun to be around and has a optimistic outlook on life. Im fine with someone as depressed and boring as I am. I mean it seems like whenever I meet a guy who's intrested I end up not wanting to pursue any sort of relationship because feel like I would have to fake it...Hmm I suppose I should not concern myself with this maybe I was meant to stay single.

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12 Jan 2011, 9:43 pm

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

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12 Jan 2011, 9:56 pm

Kilroy wrote:

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

I know I was mostly just venting...I am not looking for 'skills' though I have no intrest in coming off as a different person only for someone to find the real me and decide they want to get away as quickly as possible

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12 Jan 2011, 10:03 pm

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I think lots of guys would like that. That's the kinds of girls I go for but I have no luck with em

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12 Jan 2011, 10:06 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

that's a pipe dream

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12 Jan 2011, 10:20 pm

Kilroy wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

that's a pipe dream

Oh come on now, I am sure there is at least one person in my age group of the male gender....that is just as depressed and lonely as I am that would like if they could find someone else of that mindset.

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12 Jan 2011, 10:21 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

that's a pipe dream

I would

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12 Jan 2011, 10:26 pm

There is no hope.

you will spend the rest of your days lonely, depressed, bitter, and jealous of other couples and other people that have friends to hang out with and talk to.

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12 Jan 2011, 10:28 pm

nick007 wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

that's a pipe dream

I would

that does give me more hope then I had about it.

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12 Jan 2011, 10:28 pm

yeah that guy is a buzz kill
my point was-you gotta work for everything, nothing just comes easily
WP is also a terrible place to look for love

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12 Jan 2011, 10:31 pm

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yeah that guy is a buzz kill
my point was-you gotta work for everything, nothing just comes easily
WP is also a terrible place to look for love

Well any website is a terrible place to look for that.

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12 Jan 2011, 10:33 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

that's a pipe dream

I would

that does give me more hope then I had about it.

NoLongerLonley.com~ is a dating site for people with mental illnesses in general & there's lots of guys on there who feel that way. There's a forum to

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12 Jan 2011, 10:34 pm

nick007 wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

that's a pipe dream

I would

that does give me more hope then I had about it.

NoLongerLonley.com~ is a dating site for people with mental illnesses in general & there's lots of guys on there who feel that way. There's a forum to

well I may look into that, if only just for the hell of it.

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12 Jan 2011, 10:37 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

that's a pipe dream

I would

that does give me more hope then I had about it.

NoLongerLonley.com~ is a dating site for people with mental illnesses in general & there's lots of guys on there who feel that way. There's a forum to

well I may look into that, if only just for the hell of it.

The ratio of men to women is pretty high there & not every guy there is nice so you have to be careful as with any site. I would suggest taking an active approach posting in the forum, replying to blogs or making blogs, messaging people ect

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12 Jan 2011, 10:43 pm

nick007 wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

Sweetleaf wrote:

Kilroy wrote:

this forum has a hundred of these posts, and none really go anywhere, nothing any of us can do for you
true skills come from within

that's a pipe dream

I would

that does give me more hope then I had about it.

NoLongerLonley.com~ is a dating site for people with mental illnesses in general & there's lots of guys on there who feel that way. There's a forum to

well I may look into that, if only just for the hell of it.

Well yeah there are always things you have to be careful of with the internet in general.

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12 Jan 2011, 10:44 pm

most of these dating sites for lonely people are total sausage fests

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