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I'm a male and I want to be single but actively dating. 11%  11%  [ 5 ]
I'm a female and I want to be single but actively dating. 5%  5%  [ 2 ]
I'm a male and I want to be in a relationship. 45%  45%  [ 20 ]
I'm a female and I want to be in a relationship. 20%  20%  [ 9 ]
My religion forbids me from responding to badly-worded polls on the internet. 18%  18%  [ 8 ]
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13 Jan 2011, 1:21 am

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13 Jan 2011, 1:23 am

I'm a male who wants to be married


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13 Jan 2011, 1:32 am

I donno...I don't generally think about the future like that



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13 Jan 2011, 1:38 am

Female who doesn't know what I want, but casually dating.


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13 Jan 2011, 2:28 am

astaut wrote:
Female who doesn't know what I want, but casually dating.


Well sweetheart, you had better think about it. By the time you are in your mid thirties your biological clock has timed out and the very few men left to marry will want someone younger.



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13 Jan 2011, 2:32 am

Wombat wrote:
astaut wrote:
Female who doesn't know what I want, but casually dating.


Well sweetheart, you had better think about it. By the time you are in your mid thirties your biological clock has timed out and the very few men left to marry will want someone younger.


There's always me... :roll:

(then again I think more people would take Zoidberg over me)



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13 Jan 2011, 2:57 am

f**k off Wombat



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13 Jan 2011, 3:14 am

Just someone to hang out with, maybe go for a walk or go fishing or other simple things, and likes to cuddle, and doesn't mind nudity, but isn't obsessed with sex. Something like that.



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13 Jan 2011, 4:40 pm

I'm a female who has no the hell idea what I want.



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13 Jan 2011, 4:42 pm

Wombat wrote:
astaut wrote:
Female who doesn't know what I want, but casually dating.


Well sweetheart, you had better think about it. By the time you are in your mid thirties your biological clock has timed out and the very few men left to marry will want someone younger.


LOL. Oh my god, quick better get a move on and stop having fun now!



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13 Jan 2011, 5:15 pm

Wombat wrote:
astaut wrote:
Female who doesn't know what I want, but casually dating.


Well sweetheart, you had better think about it. By the time you are in your mid thirties your biological clock has timed out and the very few men left to marry will want someone younger.


Image

Need I say anymore?



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13 Jan 2011, 5:37 pm

Someone to care for, to be there for. I want James Woods.


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13 Jan 2011, 7:10 pm

Wombat wrote:
astaut wrote:
Female who doesn't know what I want, but casually dating.


Well sweetheart, you had better think about it. By the time you are in your mid thirties your biological clock has timed out and the very few men left to marry will want someone younger.


Getting married and having babies isn't our default goal just by virtue of being women.



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13 Jan 2011, 9:10 pm

happymusic wrote:
Wombat wrote:
astaut wrote:
Female who doesn't know what I want, but casually dating.


Well sweetheart, you had better think about it. By the time you are in your mid thirties your biological clock has timed out and the very few men left to marry will want someone younger.


Getting married and having babies isn't our default goal just by virtue of being women.

Lots of women I've gotten messages from on dating sties seem to think so. One of the 1st questions thety ask me is if I would want kids & when I tell em how I'm not planning on it at this time; that's the end of the conversation & some get really nasty with me. Not wanting to reproduce makes me a horrible person


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13 Jan 2011, 9:29 pm

I am a female who just wants to be happy, whether single, in a relationship or married. I don't do "dating" as I find it a waste of time and I hate small talk.



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13 Jan 2011, 10:32 pm

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I am a female who just wants to be happy, whether single, in a relationship or married. I don't do "dating" as I find it a waste of time and I hate small talk.


Yeah, dating is just the ritual leading up to sex. If someone really wants sex that badly, they should skip the ritual and go straight to the penetration. And if they want marriage, then before all the crap that comes with dating, and all the fun flirty grab ass games that people like to play so they don't have to think...you know, that all-consuming mind numbing pain fest called logic and reasoning, they need to decide what they want out of a marriage, and what kind of person would help make that a reality, before they play a dangerous game that costs a lot of money and time and energy and stress. Which of the ridiculous demands of this ideal partner are important, and which aren't so important? Sort of like packing for a vacation versus going out somewhere at the last minute. What do you bring with you that is vital, and what is extra? Again, most people don't want to think that hard, so dating becomes a nightmare. I write about this so much because it's in my face 24/7, and if I could escape from it easier, I might not be so pissed off that I'm stuck with this crap. It only gets worse and worse as the years go by...the rituals get more complicated, communication gets more distant and informal, people are less able to think for themselves, yeah, time is running out. Such a gloomy post. Must be the shadows under my eyes.