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NickfromCali
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19 Jan 2011, 4:39 pm

Here I am 51 years old, never having a romantic relationship, and wanting to have a romantic relationship with someone that isn't disgusting looking before I get too old to enjoy it. But since I am poor and white, and most women that aren't disgusting looking want guys to spend money on them before they think about getting into a relationship with a guy (and women, don't lie to me and say otherwise; particularly AMERICAN women). Also I get toungue tied around these women mainly BECAUSE of the pressures of being inexperienced fopr my age and not worth $100,000 USD+. Any advice for me BESIDES lowering my standards?

PS it seems the shallowness of women is in direct proportion to how much I am attracted to them



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19 Jan 2011, 4:41 pm

It also seems that the average woman with AS that is over 40 weighs at least 400 lbs. (or twice what she should to be healthy)



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19 Jan 2011, 4:50 pm

Satire or real post? I just can't tell anymore.



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19 Jan 2011, 5:12 pm

If it is serious - shallow. no wonder you haven't had a relationship.

& yeah women are ONLY worried about money + good looks. You've got us all summed right up.



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19 Jan 2011, 5:25 pm

I've been with good looking women that weren't demanding and who I barely spent any money on. You'd think with the way people sometimes talk about women here they were some kind of coin-operated sex machine. You've been around for half a century and what you're doing clearly isn't working and neither is your attitude, try something else. If you have bitterness about women to begin with you'll never get what you want, especially if you project your views on women on to every single one you're interested in



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19 Jan 2011, 5:31 pm

You'll probably never have a relationship. I'd give up if I were you



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19 Jan 2011, 5:34 pm

:roll:


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19 Jan 2011, 5:43 pm

Vigilans wrote:
I've been with good looking women that weren't demanding and who I barely spent any money on. You'd think with the way people sometimes talk about women here they were some kind of coin-operated sex machine. You've been around for half a century and what you're doing clearly isn't working and neither is your attitude, try something else. If you have bitterness about women to begin with you'll never get what you want, especially if you project your views on women on to every single one you're interested in


+1. Hooray, a sane male!



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19 Jan 2011, 5:43 pm

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It also seems that the average woman with AS that is over 40 weighs at least 400 lbs. (or twice what she should to be healthy)


I don't know what you mean by "disgusting looking", but I gathered that you don't care for women that are overweight. I've seen you post in another thread that you're around 300 pounds/very overweight...I hate to break it to you, but most women (not just women, but it's a woman you're wanting to date) aren't attracted to obese men, and you can't expect to get a average looking to attractive woman if you aren't in the same "range" as their looks. Maybe it's shallow, but most people want the most attractive person they can get (plus a good personality, etc). I'm not doing a good job of expressing what I'm trying to say, but maybe you understand or someone can elaborate.

Also, I don't understand....are you only looking to date AS women?


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19 Jan 2011, 5:47 pm

emlion wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
I've been with good looking women that weren't demanding and who I barely spent any money on. You'd think with the way people sometimes talk about women here they were some kind of coin-operated sex machine. You've been around for half a century and what you're doing clearly isn't working and neither is your attitude, try something else. If you have bitterness about women to begin with you'll never get what you want, especially if you project your views on women on to every single one you're interested in


+1. Hooray, a sane male!


Some men might call me a traitor :lol:



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19 Jan 2011, 5:48 pm

Vigilans wrote:
emlion wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
I've been with good looking women that weren't demanding and who I barely spent any money on. You'd think with the way people sometimes talk about women here they were some kind of coin-operated sex machine. You've been around for half a century and what you're doing clearly isn't working and neither is your attitude, try something else. If you have bitterness about women to begin with you'll never get what you want, especially if you project your views on women on to every single one you're interested in


+1. Hooray, a sane male!


Some men might call me a traitor :lol:


:lol: Uh oh!



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19 Jan 2011, 5:52 pm

emlion wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
emlion wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
I've been with good looking women that weren't demanding and who I barely spent any money on. You'd think with the way people sometimes talk about women here they were some kind of coin-operated sex machine. You've been around for half a century and what you're doing clearly isn't working and neither is your attitude, try something else. If you have bitterness about women to begin with you'll never get what you want, especially if you project your views on women on to every single one you're interested in


+1. Hooray, a sane male!


Some men might call me a traitor :lol:


:lol: Uh oh!


Oh noes! 8)



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19 Jan 2011, 5:53 pm

"disgusting looking"?

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19 Jan 2011, 5:57 pm

My advice... lower your standards.

Also, get not stupid about women in general. American women want nothing but rich men to spend money on them? *eye roll*

I prefer to f**k them first to see if I'm wasting my time or not.


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19 Jan 2011, 6:02 pm

NickfromCali wrote:
It also seems that the average woman with AS that is over 40 weighs at least 400 lbs. (or twice what she should to be healthy)


Where are you finding these AS women to begin with? I don't even know any IRL...

I date women who are over 40 or close to it and they certainly aren't "400lbs"



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19 Jan 2011, 6:08 pm

So the consensus is this isn't a satire thread. After Lord of the Monkey's hilarious satire I was hoping this was somebody trying to outdo him. No?

Ok. Sigh. If you are only attracted to shallow, beautiful goldiggers, you will have to expend all your efforts into getting more money. If you can't change who you are attracted to, you will simply have to make yourself more appealing to those you desire. And you pointedly stated that those you desire only date men who have a certain amount of money. So it's clear. You will have to earn that certain amount of money.

Well. What else can I say?